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Traditional Catholic Faith => The Sacred: Catholic Liturgy, Chant, Prayers => Topic started by: Matto on March 31, 2017, 03:18:53 PM

Title: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on March 31, 2017, 03:18:53 PM
Please pray for my Grandmother Helen. She is very old. She has not been eating and they think she may be dying. She is a Byzantine Rite Catholic. She will receive Extreme Unction (I don't know what they call it in the Eastern Rites) from a Byzantine Rite priest soon, but because of her condition she will not be able to make a confession. She is almost a hundred years old. So pray that she dies in a state of grace.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Nadir on March 31, 2017, 04:02:26 PM
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Post by: Marlelar on March 31, 2017, 11:31:43 PM
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Post by: poche on April 01, 2017, 12:52:04 AM
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Post by: Stubborn on April 01, 2017, 05:54:31 AM
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Post by: AMDGJMJ on April 01, 2017, 08:33:02 AM
I will be praying...  Please keep us posted...   :pray: :pray: :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 01, 2017, 09:20:59 PM
I believe she is dying. Please pray.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 01, 2017, 10:28:33 PM
I have to thank of all people, the USCCB. My grandmother can no longer eat on her own and my family was contemplating letting her starve to death without giving her a feeding tube. Their priest said it was okay and only I objected. I found a letter from the USCCB which said in such cases they should let her have a feeding tube and not just let her die. I could not give them a letter from an SSPX priest because I am the only traditional Catholic in my family, but this letter from the Bishops my family is supposed to be following was good and I showed it to my family. I do not know if they will give my grandmother a feeding tube and the decision is not mine, but now my family knows that if they do not give her a feeding tube they are disobeying the teachings of their Bishops and that their priest was wrong. So please pray for the souls of my grandmother and my family.
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Post by: shin on April 01, 2017, 10:40:42 PM
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Post by: For Greater Glory on April 01, 2017, 11:15:40 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 02, 2017, 09:10:47 AM
I am going to see my grandmother again today. With no food, she will certainly die soon. :pray:
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Post by: John Grace on April 02, 2017, 11:44:27 AM
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Post by: stgobnait on April 02, 2017, 11:49:19 AM
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Post by: AMDGJMJ on April 02, 2017, 05:17:12 PM
I am going to see my grandmother again today. With no food, she will certainly die soon. :pray:
So sad...  I will certainly be praying...  Be strong and may God bless you!   :pray: :pray: :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 02, 2017, 07:26:18 PM
She is dying. She cannot eat. They are letting her starve to death even though I objected. I just hope she is prepared to die.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: BumphreyHogart on April 02, 2017, 07:33:52 PM
She is dying. She cannot eat. They are letting her starve to death even though I objected. I just hope she is prepared to die.

Would a stomach tube cost so much that it would put someone into serious debt? As well you have to consider her age in regard to the stomach tube remedy. Reasonably, how long will it stretch out life?  I think that some consideration would be appropriate if you need to buy time for conversion, then do it, within reason.


Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: AMDGJMJ on April 03, 2017, 07:14:32 AM
She is dying. She cannot eat. They are letting her starve to death even though I objected. I just hope she is prepared to die.
Have you ever heard of the three prayers to say at the deathbed of a dying person?  (I think that they can be found in the Pieta Book.) 
At any rate...  I will definitely be praying...   :pray: :pray: :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 05, 2017, 12:53:57 PM
She died.  :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Stubborn on April 05, 2017, 01:48:53 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Nadir on April 05, 2017, 04:31:07 PM
May she rest in peace!  :pray:
Thank you for your faithfulness, Matto.
May God bless you for it.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: AMDGJMJ on April 05, 2017, 07:27:27 PM
She died.  :pray:
Requiescat in pace...  :pray: :pray: :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Nadir on April 05, 2017, 07:44:54 PM
Would a stomach tube cost so much that it would put someone into serious debt? As well you have to consider her age in regard to the stomach tube remedy. Reasonably, how long will it stretch out life?  I think that some consideration would be appropriate if you need to buy time for conversion, then do it, within reason.
The word was feeding tube, not stomach tube. It's not a matter of cost, nor is it medical treatment "to stretch out her life". My understanding is that a simple drip would suffice to keep one hydrated. Death by dehydration is known to be particularly distressing. It is simple common sense and decency that a hospital should treat the patient with the respect to which a human being is due.
Catholics need to know these things before the event, so as to be prepared.
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Post by: Student of Qi on April 05, 2017, 07:50:33 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: John Grace on April 11, 2017, 01:04:24 PM
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Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 11, 2017, 03:30:42 PM
Tonight is the wake. Tomorrow is the funeral, though it is not a Mass. I do not know the name they call it.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 12, 2017, 07:11:56 AM
This morning we are going to the Panikhida. and then to the cemetery, followed by lunch.  :pray:
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: Matto on April 12, 2017, 05:26:47 PM
It is over now. Thank you all for your prayers.
Title: Re: Prayers for My Grandmother
Post by: AMDGJMJ on April 15, 2017, 08:43:25 PM
It is over now. Thank you all for your prayers.
Glad to do what we can...
I hope you and your family are managing all right...
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