What on Earth?
Where does Hobbledehoy go to Mass? He must go to either the Fontana or Santa Clarita CMRI, if he is a sede, no? Well, this isn't the place to ask, I'm sure he wouldn't want his identity revealed now, not that anyone would judge him for a bout of depression.
Anyway, I will pray for him. Just like with everyone else this thread was really out of the blue for me -- and I am no stranger to dealing with people with depression. In fact, it's almost like a running theme in my life. Hopefully if I've shown any charity, the favor will be returned in case the bug bites me. You never know.
I don't think this is a dark night of the soul. The suicidal thoughts and nervous breakdown don't seem indicative of that. It sounds like he is under pressure of some kind or grappling with something. Hopefully his friends will try to get to the bottom of it.