In my now 7th decade I’ve never before heard these things before, nor am I aware of any citations that the Church teaches this.
I'm not sure that I have ever seen anything written down in black and white to that effect, but my understanding always has been, that only the priest and his acolytes are "part of the Mass", the responses are only proper to the acolytes, and that anyone who "assists at" the Mass (that turn of phrase seems to be derived from the French
assister à, which can mean either "assist" or merely "be present"), is merely there as a spectator, or at best, a passive participant. Spiritual participation is just a given.
Seen this way, it seems then, that Vatican II's call to "active participation" has basically made the entire congregation into glorified acolytes. This could also be said of Pius XII's call for the "Dialogue Mass".
And I'm sure you know this, but a priest can offer Mass
sine populo, in which case, some responses are modified accordingly. I do not have a copy of a
sine populo Mass handy, so I can't say how that is done, or even if such rubrics exist. Anyone?