SECOND: Jesus and mary visit a home in cana, where a marriage has taken place.. mary notices that there no wine has been served.. she mention this to Jesus, who says, "what would you have me do?" what sort of wise-crack is this? this is how God's rep. on earth talks to his mother, in public? mary summons a servant, and tells him, "do what my son commands of you".. large containers are brought to Jesus, who prays over them and the water is turned to wine.. not bad, but it doesnt make up for Jesus smart-mouthing his mother in public, at a marriage, yet!
"What would you have me do?"
This is not "smart mouthing. This is a very good question. This demonstrates the charity, goodness and prudence of the Blessed Virgin. She could have replied, "I want you to take me home." or "Since there's no wine, lets get out of here." Instead she really didn't answer him directly. She spoke to the servants and said, "Do what he tells you to do."
Actually I don't think she is just saying that to the servants at the wedding. She is also saying that to us. "So as he tells you to do." A good question for us right now might be, "Are we doing what Jesus is telling us to do?"