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Bad marriage doesn't preclude sainthood
« on: December 27, 2007, 01:56:40 PM »
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  • December 27th - St. Fabiola of Rome, Widow (AC)

    Died c. 400. Not even a bad marriage can stop us from becoming saints. In
    fact, it may be the impetus to reach for Christian perfection. Fabiola was
    divorced, remarried, explained, praised by Saint Jerome. Fabiola was a Roman
    patrician of the Fabii family who married a very young man of equal rank but
    of debauched habits. She divorced him. Then she united herself to another
    man, causing great scandal in Rome, because this was contrary to the
    ordinances of the Church. Both men died soon after and Fabiola was
    re-admitted into communion after she performed public penance. Not only did
    she complete the required penance, Fabiola completely changed her life. She
    forsook her luxurious lifestyle and devoted her great wealth to good works.
    With the help of Saint Paula's widowed son-in-law Saint Pammachius, Fabiola
    founded the first hospital of its kind to care for indigent patients brought
    in from the streets and alleyways of Rome. Here Fabiola personally tended to
    the needs of the sick.

    In 395, she visited her friend Saint Jerome in the Holy Land with the
    intention of entering the convent at Bethlehem and sharing in Jerome's
    biblical work. Whether she returned to Rome because Jerome dissuaded her
    from staying or because she was temperamentally unsuited for the quiet life,
    we don't know. Jerome says that her idea of the solitude of the stable of
    Bethlehem was that it should not be cut off from the crowded inn.
    Nevertheless, she travelled with Jerome and his companions when they fled to
    Jaffa to escape the dissension building among the leading Palestinian
    Christians and the threatened invasion of the Huns.

    Upon his advice, she returned to Rome from Jaffa and founded and
    enthusiastically superintended a hostel for sick and needy pilgrims near the
    city at Porto. This is another of Fabiola's innovations; one which Jerome
    says soon became known from Parthia to Britain. Apparently not even this
    undertaking was enough to sap Fabiola's abundant energies. At the time of
    her death she was planning a new enterprise that would take her abroad. The
    veneration in which she is held in Rome was demonstrated by the great
    multitudes that followed her funeral with chants of Alleluia.

    Jerome dedicated to Fabiola a treatise on Aaron's priesthood and another on
    the 'stations' of the Israelites in the desert. This wandering of the chosen
    people seemed to him a type of Fabiola's life and death (Attwater,
    Benedictines, Delaney, Encyclopedia, Farmer).
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    Bad marriage doesn't preclude sainthood
    « Reply #1 on: December 28, 2007, 04:46:16 PM »
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    Bad marriage doesn't preclude sainthood
    « Reply #2 on: December 28, 2007, 05:28:20 PM »
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  • The greater the suffering in this life the greater the chance of becoming a Saint, it all depends on how you respond to the suffering of course.  Many Saints led gravely sinful lifes and then through the grace of God completely changed, that is one of the reasons that their examples are so inspiring.

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    « Reply #3 on: December 28, 2007, 05:31:45 PM »
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    « Reply #4 on: January 09, 2008, 07:35:48 PM »
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  • Quote from: ChantCd
    December 27th - St. Fabiola of Rome, Widow (AC)

    Died c. 400. Not even a bad marriage can stop us from becoming saints. In
    fact, it may be the impetus to reach for Christian perfection. Fabiola was
    divorced, remarried, explained, praised by Saint Jerome. Fabiola was a Roman
    patrician of the Fabii family who married a very young man of equal rank but
    of debauched habits. She divorced him.


    Where did you get this information exactly?  Divorce is only in civil law, where as an annulment declares that the marriage was never valid in the eyes of the Church and of God.



    Offline John Steven

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    « Reply #5 on: January 10, 2008, 06:03:25 AM »
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  • Quote from: Mousey
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    December 27th - St. Fabiola of Rome, Widow (AC)

    Died c. 400. Not even a bad marriage can stop us from becoming saints. In
    fact, it may be the impetus to reach for Christian perfection. Fabiola was
    divorced, remarried, explained, praised by Saint Jerome. Fabiola was a Roman
    patrician of the Fabii family who married a very young man of equal rank but
    of debauched habits. She divorced him.


    Where did you get this information exactly?  Divorce is only in civil law, where as an annulment declares that the marriage was never valid in the eyes of the Church and of God.



    Where are you reading anything that says something to the contrary? The fact that she divorced is not being held up as something virtuous. You have to keep reading further down to find this:

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    Both men died soon after and Fabiola was re-admitted into communion after she performed public penance. Not only did she complete the required penance, Fabiola completely changed her life.


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    « Reply #6 on: January 10, 2008, 10:41:44 PM »
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     Fabiola was
    divorced, remarried, explained, praised by Saint Jerome. Fabiola was a Roman
    patrician of the Fabii family who married a very young man of equal rank but
    of debauched habits. She divorced him. Then she united herself to another
    man, causing great scandal in Rome, because this was contrary to the
    ordinances of the Church. Both men died soon after and Fabiola was
    re-admitted into communion after she performed public penance.



    I missed the "and" --- "Both men died soon after AND Fabiola was readmitted into communion..."

    Pardon my error, John.