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Offline brogan

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Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
« Reply #30 on: December 25, 2024, 02:57:51 PM »
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  • I'm so grateful to you. May God bless your generosity on this Feast of the Nativity. Double the goal was reached in 25 mins after posting here and nowhere else. I've turned the donations back off and hope to never be in a situation of need to ask again. I had just spent the last money in our bank account buying an inhaler so I could breathe and not have to spend Christmas in the ER.

    May God reward you.

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    « Reply #31 on: December 25, 2024, 10:08:36 PM »
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  • I have turned the donation function back on because people contacting me asking me too.


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    « Reply #32 on: December 26, 2024, 06:43:29 AM »
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  • December 25th

    Unbelievably we are in need once again. It has been a very humbling year.

    My wife Roselyn has almost completely recovered from the arm and leg breaks and I began working in October at a new job. The job had six weeks of training, but in the middle of November, I got very very sick and had to miss a lot of training and ended up losing that job. I didn't get any better for weeks and weeks, having incredible pain in my back, shoulder and side, along with fever and cold sweats and shivering.

    I finally went to the hospital on December 13 and was in such incredible pain I couldn't believe it. The ER gave me a CT scan and found that I had a gigantic abscess on my spleen that needed to be operated on as soon as possible. It ended up taking some time to have the procedure done on my spleen while I was just taking antibiotics. Finally, last Friday they drained the abscess of 160 cc of fluid and found that I had an E. coli infection. This is why I have been getting sick all throughout November because sometimes some of the E. coli would go into my bloodstream and I'm actually very lucky that I didn't die of sepsis.

    Recovery from the procedure has been really tough this past week and I've been in a lot of pain and also been having trouble breathing. They told me that I also have fluid in my lungs called a plural effusion. Now because of the holiday, I am waiting probably until January for the next steps. All of the doctors are out of the office.

    Anyways, I have now been out of work again since mid November and we are once again very desperate. It is not possible for me to work right now due to pain in my side chest and shoulder and trouble breathing. I cannot believe I have to ask again, but this community was so generous with my wife's ailments. I don't know where else to turn. Anyway you can help with prayers or donations is highly appreciated.



    https://www.gofundme.com/f/Roselyncowan

    You and your family have definitely been through the ringer...and I am sure that the hospital bills won't help with the financial difficulties.  Hang in there!  :pray::pray::pray:
    "Jesus, Meek and Humble of Heart, make my heart like unto Thine!"

    http://whoshallfindavaliantwoman.blogspot.com/

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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #33 on: December 28, 2024, 12:53:12 PM »
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  • I got in with an infectious disease doctor on Thursday who is excellent and renowned in the area. I will spare you the details but he believes my colon is the issue and that it caused the spleenic abscess and especially because my grandma died of colon cancer wants me to get testing asap. I've been reading about colon cancer for the past few days and found a lot of other ways it fits including it often causing fluid in the lungs called pleural effusion and trouble breathing which I have.

    Asking for continued prayers. If it is cancer it is most likely very early and treatable.

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    « Reply #34 on: December 28, 2024, 02:09:23 PM »
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  • I got in with an infectious disease doctor on Thursday who is excellent and renowned in the area. I will spare you the details but he believes my colon is the issue and that it caused the spleenic abscess and especially because my grandma died of colon cancer wants me to get testing asap. I've been reading about colon cancer for the past few days and found a lot of other ways it fits including it often causing fluid in the lungs called pleural effusion and trouble breathing which I have.

    Asking for continued prayers. If it is cancer it is most likely very early and treatable.
    :pray: :pray: :pray:
    "Jesus, Meek and Humble of Heart, make my heart like unto Thine!"

    http://whoshallfindavaliantwoman.blogspot.com/


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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #35 on: December 28, 2024, 06:08:45 PM »
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  • I got in with an infectious disease doctor on Thursday who is excellent and renowned in the area. I will spare you the details but he believes my colon is the issue and that it caused the spleenic abscess and especially because my grandma died of colon cancer wants me to get testing asap. I've been reading about colon cancer for the past few days and found a lot of other ways it fits including it often causing fluid in the lungs called pleural effusion and trouble breathing which I have.

    Asking for continued prayers. If it is cancer it is most likely very early and treatable.
    :pray:
    If only it were all so simple! If only there were evil people somewhere insidiously committing evil deeds, and it were necessary only to separate them from the rest of us and destroy them. But the line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being. And who is willing to destroy a piece of his own heart?

    ― Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn, The Gulag Archipelago

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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #36 on: December 28, 2024, 06:42:22 PM »
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  • :pray::pray::pray:
    1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 "4 Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely; is not puffed up; 5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil;"

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    « Reply #37 on: January 06, 2025, 09:26:13 PM »
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  • I went to the Gi doctor today and it went good. I have a colonoscopy on the 14th and an appointment with Woods the infectious disease doctor on 15th. Woods is starting me off flagyl now for infection. Also have a liver ultrasound scheduled. This is because the recent ct showed a lesion on my liver.  I was in the hospital on Thursday and the spleen abscess has returned and the plural effusion has gotten very large which is why i can hardly breathe. Woods said the er would be best for the abscess and effusion. Im going in to the hospital tomorrow at 6am.

    I still haven't been able to work and finances are quite low. Because of the water in my lungs, I can't walk ten steps without feeling like I'm gonna pass out. I am so grateful for the money you guys gave recently, but it has all been spent.  So many bills came in. Anything helps now.



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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #38 on: January 07, 2025, 04:55:47 AM »
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  • :pray:
    "Jesus, Meek and Humble of Heart, make my heart like unto Thine!"

    http://whoshallfindavaliantwoman.blogspot.com/

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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #39 on: January 10, 2025, 06:23:39 PM »
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  • So it's looking like I may be in the hospital for up to a month. I need IV antibiotics for a long time. Pray for me because I despise being in the hospital. 

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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #40 on: January 13, 2025, 07:38:32 PM »
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  • :pray: for you.

    But have you seen this thread?

    https://www.cathinfo.com/anonymous-posts-allowed/job-himself-right-here-on-cathinfo/

    Do you have anything to say in your defense?

    If you are scamming people, the virtuous thing is to apologize.

    If you are really going through these tough times, do you have people to corroborate your story.

    In an age where people distrust, we have to give extra proof of our sincerity. It is just the times we live in.
    1 Corinthians: Chapter 13 "4 Charity is patient, is kind: charity envieth not, dealeth not perversely; is not puffed up; 5 Is not ambitious, seeketh not her own, is not provoked to anger, thinketh no evil;"


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    Re: We are desperate. Please help us.
    « Reply #41 on: January 13, 2025, 08:18:10 PM »
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  • Looks like GoFundMe is stalled for the time being. Hmmm.
    One of his first posts said his wife broke her leg,  in THREE places. Think about that. In the photo his wife looks more on the small size. How in the world can a tiny woman fall and have such injuries.? If she has osteoporosis maybe...?  Did he present a Dentist's bill to GFMe? Gimme a break...
    More to your point: when will BRO explain and PROVE his unfraudnessmess? (sic)
    One guy in Saskatchewan had a fake GFMe, raised $20 K. The judge sent him to jail...fraud is no joke:pray:
    Pray. 




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    « Reply #42 on: January 15, 2025, 02:52:44 AM »
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  • This is Brogan. Every single thing I've told you guys is true. My wife broke her arm and her leg both in two places and was bedridden for September and October. Then in November, I started getting sick and I've been in and out of the hospital. I could post tons of screenshots of medical records. I promise you guys this was not a scam and I used my real name James Cowan.





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    « Reply #43 on: January 15, 2025, 04:01:49 AM »
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  • Some of my Wife's records from the left elbow surgery. The implant is the metal screws they inserted.

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    « Reply #44 on: January 15, 2025, 04:09:29 AM »
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  • More of my wifes records