MamaChaCha, I'm like your husband - extremely good instincts, but it's from an enhanced awareness of body language, not a clairvoyance. Simplistically speaking, we just read people really well, really quickly. And, like your husband, and at the risk of sounding prideful (I'm only being factual), my instincta about another have never failed.
However, regarding other 'special gifts', there is a family member who has had very vivid religious visions for many years. She is very intelligent and well grounded, a baptized Catholic-then atheist-now "trad" via a novus ordo parish (thinks
I'm in schism) ... she's now into all the allure of whoever the flavor of the day Mary visionary may be., no matter how we counsel her. So I've come to the conclusion that, even if her personal visions were legit, satan has used it to distract her, and he's been extremely successful. She has all the appearance of an n.o. trad, attending an fssp Mass - even professed vows in a 3rd order - but is captivated with Medjugorje and anyone who purports to speak for Mary and Jesus, and secular seers of end time prophesies.
To that end, this is extremely critical advice from Capt McQuigg:
If a Catholic thinks they are seeing signs, or receiving messages, they should turn the confessional and pray unceasingly.