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Offline AnthonyPadua

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Another case of Trad feminism
« on: January 30, 2026, 03:31:04 PM »
See attached image.

>Girl prays to God to send a man her way
>Guy asks girl for number after Church
>Rejects him and posts online that she was "mortified"
>Makes another posts claiming it was not the man she wanted it to be
>Feminist and simps support her while non-feminists call our her

It's one thing to reject someone your not interested but posting about it online with strong reactions while claiming to be traditional is not charitable, if the guy she rejected sees it, ouch.

Offline AnthonyPadua

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #1 on: January 30, 2026, 03:39:42 PM »
See attached image.

>Girl prays to God to send a man her way
>Guy asks girl for number after Church
>Rejects him and posts online that she was "mortified"
>Makes another posts claiming it was not the man she wanted it to be
>Feminist and simps support her while non-feminists call our her

It's one thing to reject someone your not interested but posting about it online with strong reactions while claiming to be traditional is not charitable, if the guy she rejected sees it, ouch.
Before anyone comes out claiming she was just nervous. See image 2. People who don't like attention don't post online about their life for everyone to see.


Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #2 on: January 30, 2026, 03:41:35 PM »
I'm not sure there's enough information here to call her a feminist, but she definitely does seem to be resisting God's will.  Now, she may be, but this scenario doesn't prove it.

Let's say I'm an unmarried young man.

I pray for God to send me a wife.
Some girl comes up to me after Mass and strongly implies she wants to be asked out.
But ... I just don't like her, for whatever reason ... not very bright, unattractive, personality not my type, think she's a bit crazy, has a "past", etc.
So then I reject her and say, "well, that's not who I hoped God would send me."

That doesn't make me the male equivalent of a feminist, some toxically masculine guy ... just that I resisted what I thought might be the will of God for me in favor of my own preferences, and we all do that on a regular basis, and it's called sin.

At the same time, it COULD just have been concidence also, and not God answering any prayer of mine.  In a sense, I'd be foolhardy, really, to know for sure that it was God's will that I marry this woman at once just because she came my way ... based on some potentially misreading of God's will from the timing of events, almost to the point of thinking it might be superstitious.

Offline AnthonyPadua

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #3 on: January 30, 2026, 03:49:09 PM »
I'm not sure there's enough information here to call her a feminist, but she definitely does seem to be resisting God's will.  Now, she may be, but this scenario doesn't prove it.

Let's say I'm an unmarried young man.

I pray for God to send me a wife.
Some girl comes up to me after Mass and strongly implies she wants to be asked out.
But ... I just don't like her, for whatever reason ... not very bright, unattractive, personality not my type, think she's a bit crazy, has a "past", etc.
So then I reject her and say, "well, that's not who I hoped God would send me."

That doesn't make me the male equivalent of a feminist, some toxically masculine guy ... just that I resisted what I thought might be the will of God for me in favor of my own preferences, and we all do that on a regular basis, and it's called sin.

At the same time, it COULD just have been concidence also, and not God answering any prayer of mine.  In a sense, I'd be foolhardy, really, to know for sure that it was God's will that I marry this woman at once just because she came my way ... based on some potentially misreading of God's will from the timing of events, almost to the point of thinking it might be superstitious.
She had another pervious post about she was sad she wouldn't see the same guy who knelt next to her in communion again. So the Pew guy was an issue but the communion guy was not. Really makes you think. The issue is comes to light because she can't resist posting about it online.

Imagine if a guy posted complaining about an ugly women sitting next to him at mass and mass would be better seeing no women but also happily commenting about an attractive women he saw at the communion rail... The feminists would be all over attacking him and rightly so.

I don't see why she would complain about men at mass, mass is for God.

Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #4 on: January 30, 2026, 03:49:47 PM »
Before anyone comes out claiming she was just nervous. See image 2. People who don't like attention don't post online about their life for everyone to see.

So, one can be arrogant or entitled, without necessarily being a "feminist".

If a young many went around rejecting young ladies because he thought himself entitled to much more, deriding them as "fat", "ugly", etc. etc. ... he could be just an a-hole, a jerk, but not making that judgment from the standpoint of men vs. women but himself vs. these other "inferiors".

Same thing here.  She may not be a feminist in principle, but just thinks very highly of herself in general, i.e. not that she's better than or superior to men in general, but just considers CERTAIN men unworthy of her.

Could just be personal arrogance or pride, vs. a principled feminist one.  Now personal arrogance will often easily transition over into feminism, but isn't necessarily the same thing.