I'm not sure there's enough information here to call her a feminist, but she definitely does seem to be resisting God's will. Now, she may be, but this scenario doesn't prove it.
Let's say I'm an unmarried young man.
I pray for God to send me a wife.
Some girl comes up to me after Mass and strongly implies she wants to be asked out.
But ... I just don't like her, for whatever reason ... not very bright, unattractive, personality not my type, think she's a bit crazy, has a "past", etc.
So then I reject her and say, "well, that's not who I hoped God would send me."
That doesn't make me the male equivalent of a feminist, some toxically masculine guy ... just that I resisted what I thought might be the will of God for me in favor of my own preferences, and we all do that on a regular basis, and it's called sin.
At the same time, it COULD just have been concidence also, and not God answering any prayer of mine. In a sense, I'd be foolhardy, really, to know for sure that it was God's will that I marry this woman at once just because she came my way ... based on some potentially misreading of God's will from the timing of events, almost to the point of thinking it might be superstitious.