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Offline Gray2023

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #15 on: January 31, 2026, 06:37:25 AM »
Quote from: TomGubbinsKimmage on January 30, 2026, 05:24:41 PM

God sends the man to the woman, not the woman to the man.

The man is the active agent.

You should know better Laddy.


A single man should pray rather that God helps HIM to find her, not for her to find him.
How do you figure?  Most men need a hint from a woman to pursue her.  Maybe you are only speaking about choleric men?
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Offline Gray2023

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #16 on: January 31, 2026, 06:43:28 AM »
Quote from: AnthonyPadua on January 31, 2026, 01:25:30 AM
I find it 'interesting' she uses the word "mortified", and calls her sister a witness.



In essence a man who she wasn't interested in asking for her number was 'death' for her.. rather than appreciate the attempt and be done with it she posts about it online, it's very rude and disrespectful, it takes a lot of courage to ask a girl for her number, not to mention a lot of guys fear asking girls out nowdays due to them posting and mocking/insulting them online... which is what she did. :fryingpan:

That's really the issue here not that she rejected someone she wasn't interested in.
Society has lost all the social etiquette on how people couple up (for lack of a better term.)  If the attraction isn't instant, they don't even try.  I wish I knew how we change this.
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Offline Justinian

Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #17 on: January 31, 2026, 07:28:55 AM »
Quote from: Gray2023 on January 31, 2026, 06:43:28 AM
Society has lost all the social etiquette on how people couple up (for lack of a better term.)  If the attraction isn't instant, they don't even try.  I wish I knew how we change this.
I think you’re right. Sometimes in friendships first impressions are very wrong so same with meeting potential spouses. Unless the man was aggressive or rude I don’t know why this woman was ‘mortified’ a man asked for her number!? 
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Offline Justinian

Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #18 on: January 31, 2026, 07:30:26 AM »
Quote from: Gray2023 on January 31, 2026, 06:37:25 AM
How do you figure?  Most men need a hint from a woman to pursue her.  Maybe you are only speaking about choleric men?
I agree Gray. A certain type of man may need a few hints that a woman is interested. My grandmother told me in those days women used to drop something in the hope a man they liked would pick it up and start talking to them!!
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Offline Gray2023

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Re: Another case of Trad feminism
« Reply #19 on: January 31, 2026, 07:56:26 AM »
Quote from: Justinian on January 31, 2026, 07:28:55 AM
I think you’re right. Sometimes in friendships first impressions are very wrong so same with meeting potential spouses. Unless the man was aggressive or rude I don’t know why this woman was ‘mortified’ a man asked for her number!?
I avoided my husband for a whole year.  He was younger and kind of awkward. After I got to know him better, I started to like him.  It took a friend suggesting a relationship to get the ball rolling. We weren't Catholic, I had fallen away from the Faith and he was Methodist.  He is the one who started looking for Truth and now we have be Traditional Catholic for 24 years.  God knows what he is doing, we just need to be patient and listen.
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