OP and video inadvertently reveal that the primary motivation of resisting "women's lib" is still self-serving as a woman. This selfishness (and narcissism) is at the core of feminism in the first place. The primary interest of women should be serving her husband and children.
Oh my goodness. And here, in all my innocence, I just thought it was funny! I wasn't looking at the selfishness of the video. Although now that you mention it, I DO see your point.
And, by the way, I do agree with your position that the woman is to serve her husband, and care for her children. (I don't think it's necessary for a woman to serve her children--unless she's dishing up their plates).