I must say, it's nice to hear something positive about the phlegmatic soul. Of the four temperments I hear the least about this one for some reason. Usually at the end of those temperment tests, the other 3 temperment descriptions have a big long explanation and list of famous people and saints. But then you get to the phlegmatic section and find a small paragraph. Kind of frustrating for the person who is phlegmatic! Haha.
But what you say, in general, is true, spouse of jesus. I'm phlegmatic and I have never struggled with being obedient. I have, however, struggled quite a bit with being passive to the point of my detriment in regards to people easily taking advantage of my disposition, not expressing my concerns, etc. I don't have much of a backbone, in other words, it seems.Each temperment comes with a lot of good, but also many obstacles for sure!