I watched bits and pieces of this video, out of sheer curiosity, and it is very strange, the host sounds kind of robotic and keeps using the same formulaic phrases over and over. I am not privy enough to the inner dynamics of black women, to know whether his observations are accurate or not.
I do know that women tend to be very defensive over the way that other women approach the task of being a mother. I suppose that women such as Susan Smith and Andrea Yates cause them some discomfort.