You forgot two!
My father taught me about SACRIFICING for others. While whipping our rear ends, he’d state, “You should know this hurts me a lot more than it hurts you!”
My mother taught me about DIVINE JUSTICE. If we complained we’d been unfairly punished at school for the misdeeds of others, Mom would look at us, raise her eyebrows, and say, “Well, dear, just consider it the punishment for something you did do, but didn’t get caught.”