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Offline FirstAid

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  •  :argue: :argue:Dear Cathinfo,

    My New Novus Ordo priest has told me that now that I understand why the SSPX are wrong that I am legally obligated not to take the sacraments from them. I no longer attend Mass with my parents or brothers. I did sort of understand why at the time he was explaining it all to me but I know that I can't persuade my parents. It is really frustrating because he went up to my parents house and still did not convert them. He says that they must want the truth and that they are not ready for it yet. He has told my grandmother who is intelligent enough but she cannot articulate the arguments with them either despite trying for the past 4 years. I am worried that I can no longer obey the 4th commandment and that it will keep me in sin. I have told the priest that they are weird (girls are not allowed to wear trousers) and cruel (they do not allow people to talk to the younger students just because they are atheists) My new priest knows that they are regarded as ultra conservative crackpots.

    Please pray for me and my family

    FirstAid


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    « Reply #1 on: June 21, 2013, 06:16:20 AM »
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  • Hmmm. Thought I was on the wrong forum. I will pray for you that you don't return to the NO.


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    « Reply #2 on: June 21, 2013, 06:40:03 AM »
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  • Why did you say that the SSPX is weird? I thought you're a Trad.

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    « Reply #3 on: June 21, 2013, 10:50:59 AM »
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  • First Aid, did it ever occur to you that your novus ordo priest is the one that is wrong?

    You need to get some older Catholic books, and compare them to the writings of today's Catholics just to see who is right and who is wrong.

    Seek a few out on the Internet, or ask for advice of what books you should be looking for right here on this forum.  

    I would suggest you basic catechism book, something you might understand from the beginning and grow from there.  

    Of course your novus ordo priest, if you ask him, will tell you those books are outdated.   Then ask how can truth be outdated?
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    « Reply #4 on: June 21, 2013, 12:50:54 PM »
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    :argue: :argue:Dear Cathinfo,

    My New Novus Ordo priest has told me that now that I understand why the SSPX are wrong that I am legally obligated not to take the sacraments from them. I no longer attend Mass with my parents or brothers. I did sort of understand why at the time he was explaining it all to me but I know that I can't persuade my parents. It is really frustrating because he went up to my parents house and still did not convert them. He says that they must want the truth and that they are not ready for it yet. He has told my grandmother who is intelligent enough but she cannot articulate the arguments with them either despite trying for the past 4 years. I am worried that I can no longer obey the 4th commandment and that it will keep me in sin. I have told the priest that they are weird (girls are not allowed to wear trousers) and cruel (they do not allow people to talk to the younger students just because they are atheists) My new priest knows that they are regarded as ultra conservative crackpots.

    Please pray for me and my family

    FirstAid


    Women did not wear trousers for over 500 years in Western Civilization, and even for centuries after the founding of Jamestown.  Why was that behavior weird?  Was Saint Thomas Aquinas wrong, as the Church's principle theologian (even per the 1983 Code of Canon Law), when he wrote the following:

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    "As stated in the foregoing Article, outward apparel should be consistent with the estate of the person, according to the general custom. Hence it is in itself sinful for a woman to wear man's clothes, or vice versa; especially since this may be a cause of sensuous pleasure; and it is expressly forbidden in the Law (Deuteronomy 22) because the Gentiles used to practice this change of attire for the purpose of idolatrous superstition. Nevertheless this may be done sometimes without sin on account of some necessity, either in order to hide oneself from enemies, or through lack of other clothes, or for some similar motive." (ST, II II, 169, 2, ad 3)


    If it is "weird" for girls not to wear trousers, why is it "weird" for boys not to wear dresses?  And, where should we get our moral standards from, the culture or Catholic Tradition?  And as for being "ultra conservative crackpots," whose judgment is that?  Yours, the Catholic Church's, or the Triune God's?

    I hope that you do not find yourself in eternal Hell someday; it'll be a "one-way" trip for you!

    P.S.  As for talking with atheists, what would be the point of doing that, especially, for a young person?


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    « Reply #5 on: June 21, 2013, 01:09:38 PM »
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  • P.P.S.  FirstAid is a troll and everything which he (or she -- unlikely) wrote is likely made-up.  I suspect that FirstAid is, in fact, an atheist.  In particular, getting a NO priest to go to anyone's house in attempt to "convert" them is almost unheard of!!!!  This is claim is almost certainly not true!

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    « Reply #6 on: June 21, 2013, 01:13:48 PM »
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    My new priest knows that they are regarded as ultra conservative crackpots.


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    « Reply #7 on: June 22, 2013, 03:36:26 PM »
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  • FistAid is simply a troll who needs to be banned now rather than later.
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    « Reply #8 on: June 22, 2013, 05:05:52 PM »
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    :argue: :argue:Dear Cathinfo,

    My New Novus Ordo priest has told me that now that I understand why the SSPX are wrong that I am legally obligated not to take the sacraments from them. I no longer attend Mass with my parents or brothers. I did sort of understand why at the time he was explaining it all to me but I know that I can't persuade my parents. It is really frustrating because he went up to my parents house and still did not convert them. He says that they must want the truth and that they are not ready for it yet. He has told my grandmother who is intelligent enough but she cannot articulate the arguments with them either despite trying for the past 4 years. I am worried that I can no longer obey the 4th commandment and that it will keep me in sin. I have told the priest that they are weird (girls are not allowed to wear trousers) and cruel (they do not allow people to talk to the younger students just because they are atheists) My new priest knows that they are regarded as ultra conservative crackpots.

    Please pray for me and my family

    FirstAid


    What a BS hit-and-run post.
    "This principle is most certain: The non-Christian cannot in any way be Pope. The reason for this is that he cannot be head of what he is not a member. Now, he who is not a Christian is not a member of the Church, and a manifest heretic is not a Christian, as is clearly taught by St. Cyprian, St. Athanasius, St. Augustine, St. Jerome, and others. Therefore, the manifest heretic cannot be Pope." -- St. Robert Bellarmine

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    « Reply #9 on: June 22, 2013, 08:28:47 PM »
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  • "First Aid"  needs some first aid. Like a gigantic bandage across his trolling mouth. Perhaps some soap could be inserted in there first?

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    « Reply #10 on: June 23, 2013, 03:50:16 AM »
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    :argue: :argue:Dear Cathinfo,

    My New Novus Ordo priest has told me that now that I understand why the SSPX are wrong that I am legally obligated not to take the sacraments from them. I no longer attend Mass with my parents or brothers. I did sort of understand why at the time he was explaining it all to me but I know that I can't persuade my parents. It is really frustrating because he went up to my parents house and still did not convert them. He says that they must want the truth and that they are not ready for it yet. He has told my grandmother who is intelligent enough but she cannot articulate the arguments with them either despite trying for the past 4 years. I am worried that I can no longer obey the 4th commandment and that it will keep me in sin. I have told the priest that they are weird (girls are not allowed to wear trousers) and cruel (they do not allow people to talk to the younger students just because they are atheists) My new priest knows that they are regarded as ultra conservative crackpots.

    Please pray for me and my family


    FirstAid
    I'll assume it's genuine -
    FirstAid. The very worst thing you can possibly do if you are having doubts about Tradition and tempted to return to the Novus Ordo (and holding the fort all on your own can be hard work) is to consult a Modernist. The doubts and the despair come from the Devil. He wants more than anything to drag faithful Catholics who cling to the True Mass into Hell. It's exactly like Cranmer and the English protestants -  the Devil will tell us we are all alone, and how can we possibly be right. He will tell us that the collected weight of modern 'scholarship' and the whole movement of the world says that we are wrong. The mocking tirades of the Modernists (we are 'weird' etc) won't stop. The old Bishop of London, Goldwell, and Feckenham the Abbot of Westminster (in the Tower in Elizabeth's reign) had to listen to the daily harangue of a Puritan chaplain, who could, like the Devil, 'twist Scripture to his own purposes'. They remained faithful, these two frail old men, to a Faith mocked and ridiculed daily by broadsheet and pamphlet (I remember a cartoon in the 'Tablet' with the caption 'Tridentine Catholicism? Does sir want that in hardback or straitjacket?') Don't read 'em.

    If we are wrong, then St. Peter was wrong, then St. Pius V was wrong, then St. Pius X was wrong. If we are wrong the Church taught error for 1900 years until Vatican II. That's exactly what the Protestants say - that the Church taught error until a low fornicating monk and a traitor to his vows (Luther) corrected it! We have 1962 years of Holy Tradition on our side, and every Saint. The Modernists cannot be right - they can have the upper hand for a day; and more than a day, but what was true at Trent and Vatican I is true today.

    You were right, your parents and grandparents are right - in the SSPX you were right, you had the True Mass, the True Sacraments, True, unchanging Catholic doctrine. Think of St. Athanasius - almost every other Bishop taught that Our Blessed Lord was a man. A created, mortal man. He remained loyal to the Faith - that Our Lord is wholly God and wholly Man. Think of the English Catholic recusants, who kept the Faith by hiding chasubles underneath floorboards and smuggling in priests at night to say Mass amongst an alien and Protestant people. For God's sake, and I do not say this lightly, for God's sake keep to Tradition!

     Do not take the easy way! How does the Devil winkle trads out of Tradition'? Emotionalism. Wouldn't it be nice if I did not have to drive one/two/three hours to Mass? The fact one is very often holding the fort on your own - it would be easier to accept either the Indult or the Novus Ordo in a 'ritualised' form (the 'reform of the reform')* and quietly put the Crisis to one side.

    Good grief, God forgive me, I have done it. If you don't act as you think, you start to think as you act.You will careen slowly into Modernism. You can see it in the FSSP and ICRSS. They've lain down the sword. I hear they've accepted the Novus Ordo and assist at a Novus Ordo Chrism Mass. It was inevitable. First, you're afraid of 'insulting the Pope' who, 'so graciously gave us the Indult'/received us into 'full communion' (you were never outside the Church) or thinking that 'the Pauline Mass [note the pseudo-traditional shift in terminology] isn't so bad - it's only abused. This is how it was meant to be offered'. Right-ho.

    Hermeneutic of continuity alert! You've already accepted Vatican II as inherently good and it's a downward slide from there - every Conciliar error can be explained away. You've accepted Modernism. I've said it before, it's a hermeneutic of self-delusion. You've abandoned the terms of the battle - Tradition versus the Council - , so now you can convince yourself that every Modernist heresy can be explained away or simply ignored.

    I'm not suggesting, God forbid, Holy Church has defected, but look at Cranmer. Michael Davies made the comparison. Now the Modernist heretics, unlike most heretics, have not declared a new 'church'. They're quite content ravaging and subverting the Church Militant on Earth (which is why they are so pernicious - it's heresy inside the Church). Cranmer's 'sonorous prose' Protestantized England by repetition and by acceptance for the sake of peace. Catholic-minded men who hated Protestantism contented themselves with the little rituals and solemnities of 'High Church' Anglicanism - dare I say the little rituals and solemnities remaining in the 'reform of the reform'? and so lost the Faith.
    Old-fashioned is good, modern is suicidal.
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    « Reply #11 on: June 23, 2013, 05:48:13 AM »
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  • How old are you?

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  • If you mean 'First Aid' I am sorry, but I don't know why you want to know my age. I don't think my comment was childish.

    In answer to your question, not very - I'm quite a young man. I can't remember the Council. I don't see what my youth has to do with the point, though. If you think I sound a bit... hypocritical as a young man talking about 'holding the fort', I base those comments on my experience living about two hundred miles from the nearest Tridentine Mass. I've no intention of dragging the discussion to a personal level, but I hope my comment is not hot air.
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    « Reply #13 on: June 23, 2013, 09:58:06 AM »
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  • Patrick, I feel sure the age comment was directed at FirstAid not your comment.  I suppose I feel that way because the OP here seems to be coming from someone very young, perhaps only 15 to 16 years of age.  

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  • Well then. First Aid, as kindly as I can put it it is extremely hard to be a good young Catholic today. I advise you-  no! I beg you - not to abandon Holy Tradition. I am sure nothing gives the Devil more happiness than to wrest a Catholic soul from Holy Faith.  I am sure you know from your catechism as a little child that Tradition is true, that the SSPX is right. The Faith is wholly satisfactory to the mind. Any renunciation of the Faith, then, the true Faith, can only be down to emotionalism, or a desire for ease, or something of that sort.

    You should never have spoken to a Modernist priest. That's rather like a hen visiting the fox's earth. However, there is no good crying over spilt milk and you should be glad your parents remained loyal to Tradition. The Novus Ordo is not a Catholic Mass. It is a sacrilege. It's as simple as that. It is offensive to God. To assist at the New Mass is an objectively mortal sin of sacrilege.

     I don't know why or how you are tempted. I was tempted with ease - wouldn't it be nice and easy if you went along with the Novus Ordo and then we'd all be friends again. The Devil is very cunning and has many strings to his bow. If you don't listen to me, as I am a layman you've never met, listen to your priest - the traditional, SSPX priest - and to your parents.

    Also, try to get a good book. A popular American one (I've never seen it on this side of the Atlantic, but I've read excerpts) is Father Lasance's Young Man's Guide/Young Girls Guide. All I can say after that is that I'll pray for you.
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