Mass is over after Ite Missa Est.
Yes, but unless one's wife is in labor (or a similar emergency), it wouldn't kill a person to stick around till after the priest leaves the altar...
LOL, indeed. We 'linger' a bit after mass to say some prayers as a family in a couple side chapels where we have particular devotions, so we are usually out after everyone has cleared out anyway, including parking. I don't know when it started, we've just always done that.
Apparently it's odd of us.
One time a couple months back we were travelling and stopped into the local parish for a daily Mass (it wasn't a HDoO, but it was a Saint day that was important to us). Needless to say, it was NO and we knew we were rolling the dice but anyway but we were travelling and there were certainly no SSPX or SSPV for 100 mi, they had a weird practice (even for NO) where after the priest said "the Mass has ended..." he just stood at the bottom step and started chatting and the parishioners started their own side conversations.
It was really abrupt, like they couldn't wait for the Mass to end and to start chatting. It was like the next words after he said the Mass had ended was "How have you been Charlie?" like it was one contguous sentence and the side conversations broke out so *immediately*.
I know you're probably not surprised, but I guess we don't get into NO churches much so it still shocks us.
Anyway, so we make our way over to Our Lady and we all kneel and start praying Aves, and the *priest* just stands there chatting us up about where we are from and where we are staying and doesn't care one whit that *we are in prayer* and it is audible (the cacophany is around us with everyone chatting like a Starbucks) and he doesnt stop(!). Then we were at the Infant Jesus of Prague and, again, kneeling and praying audibly minding our own business and he asks more chit-chat questions from the front where he is (and we are all the way at the back now!) to ask what our kids' names are.
Polite conversation, but totally obtuse. I detected definite passive-aggression. I know we should give others the benefit of the doubt but to stand there and jabber about nonsense when people are kneeling and praying, and *continue* to jabber without stopping is not an accidental interruption.