Can you give me some examples of changes that I might be missing in my chapel or that might have happened in your chapel that are mandated by the District Superior and indicate a modernistic move?
The first time I realized something was not quite right was when Bishop Williamson was persecuted, slandered and expelled. No explaination was given. In fact, no one seemed interested. "Ok, we lost a bishop, so what's for dinner ?"
So, the first and most important symptom, even at a parish level, I believe is in what they do NOT say or do. And this is also the hardest to detect, especially for people who don't look past their own little comfort zone.
There have been many scandals coming out of Rome (Assisi III, books/interviews, mosque/ѕуηαgσgυє visits, ..), but the SSPX has been silent. No more condemnations, no more reminders what we're fighting against, just silence. Even scandals in our own parish are now ignored and tolerated (I can't elaborate on this one without saying too much). Sometimes it seems the new enemy has become those "dirty contageous sedevacantists", and now also "those proud rebelious resistance bishop/priest/religous/laity". The superiors have given up the fight, the inferiors will follow the example. It sounds so much like Vatican II. No more condemnations, let's forget about our differences, let's be positive and get along with everybody.. except with those who disagree with this new direction !
There are also some secondary symptoms. For example, they recently tried introducing the Dialogue Mass, for no good reason. This caused a big stir and was thankfully thrown out. The pictures they now use on their own advertising (star wars, evil characters). Sacraments are happily administered to teenagers living in public sin. Kids in church texting, talking, obscenities, etc.. are ignored and quietly tolerated, not in theory, but in practice. There is no more 'spark' in our priests. And the laity look, live and talk like any other worldling. We know some protestants that would put most of these Traditional Catholics to shame !
I understand that when you have a good priest, the secondary symptoms will be less or even non existent. But even those good priests will have to choose sooner or later, they are on a collision course with their superiors.
And I also understand that every situation is different. Some people see things early, some see it late. But everyone who sees and then ignores it, has given up the fight and might not get any more graces after that.