Then you must believe yourself to be far, far above everyone else. You and de Lugo. You and De Lugo accuse Catholics here of adhering to condemned or heretical doctrine. Shame on you. It is not that simple.
Quite frankly, you’re a delicate soul, ignorant of Church teaching, who now feels needlessly destabilized to learn a covert contrary intention invalidates a sacrament. That your emotional faculty predominates over your intellect is the cause of your struggle. For those who do not labor under that baggage, this matter is quite simple.
I will pray for your peace.