Your approach to the Crisis in the Church is different from mine and that of Archbishop Lefebvre. I can't really address your approach, since it completely differs from mine.
Archbishop Lefebvre said that the Crisis is a mystery. Why would God allow such a thing? And yet He has. Like the Archbishop, I don't take the most drastic approach to the Crisis. You have chosen differently.
Meg, the Truth is one. There are not multiple truths. A round thing is not a square. A square thing is not a circle. We don't get to just make up stuff. Reality is reality.
If you are not willing to say that you are "united to Bergoglio in mind and heart," good for you! The Holy Spirit is guiding you. Follow your conscience on that.
The next part about your response to "the Crisis in the Church" is secondary to following your conscience. You correctly believe that Bergoglio is a Modernist heretic and you are not "united" with him. This means you probably are Catholic. But you are just confused about how to respond to the question of "who's the Pope."
But, as I have shown you, you cannot BOTH withhold your "unity" with Bergoglio AND believe that Bergoglio is the authoritative Pope. To hold that position contradicts the Catholic Faith.
So the easy answer is to acknowledge that Bergoglio is simply not the Pope. He is an Antipope. That argument would go something like this:
MAJOR PREMISE:
No person can be both a Modernist heretic and an authoritative Pope at the same time.
MINOR PREMISE:
Bergoglio is a Modernist heretic.
CONCLUSION:
Bergoglio cannot be the authoritative Pope.
Where does this leave you? You will accept that currently the Roman See is vacant, as many others do. You may decide not to go any farther than that. You may decide that the question on the status on previous Popes is a mystery to you. But, one thing is certain, you cannot believe BOTH that Bergoglio is a Modernist heretic AND that he is also the authoritative Pope.
Does that make sense?