Some theologians believed that for validity of Holy Orders the matter was the imposition of hands, others thought that is the the passing of the instruments, and still others believed that it was both (this is what you believe). Pope Pius XII settled the matter by stating that it was just the imposition of hands that was essential, BUT for the sacrament to be *licit*, all of the rites are to be observed.
Again, you misrepresent what I have said. I will say it again. There are multiple things happening in a traditional Priestly Ordination as described by Aquinas (not by me):
1. A blessing is given to prepare the recipient for the graces of the Sacrament.
2. The grace of the Order is conveyed by imposition of hands (matter) and the Preface prayer (form).
The indelible character is imprinted here, says Pius XII.3. The priest's hands and instruments must be consecrated because unconsecrated things cannot touch Our Lord.
Aquinas said that the indelible character was imprinted on this step, but he has now been overruled by Pius XII.Assigning the precise point where the indelible character of Order was imprinted was the subject matter of
Sacramentum Ordinis. It has been settled. I agree with you that this precise issue has been settled.
The consecration by anointing with oils was not discussed in
Sacramentum Ordinis. Pius XII did not have a reason to discuss that subject there. Yes,
SO said that "handing over of the instruments" was not the matter of the imprinting of the indelible character. But one should not take that to mean that a priest can now handle Our Lord with unconsecrated hands and instruments. The consecration with oils must still be done as it had always been done to perfect the power Sacrament. Otherwise, the priest is committing a sacrilege by touching Our Lord with unconsecrated hands. It is not just ecclesiastically illicit. It is immoral for theological reasons.
It is similar to a lay person handing out Holy Communion. The reason a lay person should not do this is not because he's a lay person, but, rather, because his hands have not been consecrated.