Caraffa said: I usually don't like the term "bad Catholic," the way that it is used today assumes that one can be habitual bad and yet remain Catholic, which is false. It should generally be replaced with either with ex-Catholic, lapsed Catholic, or faithless Catholic. Nadie may not be a "convert" but he is then a revert, and thus is no different than most converts.
Yeah, he would have to tell us, but it sounds likely that he didn't have a trace of the faith and that his Catholicism of the time was limited to being baptized. That is not being a bad Catholic, if you have apostasized you aren't Catholic.
In any case, I find it odd that he has established these restrictions against converts marrying his daughter, when cradle Catholics don't even take that attitude. It's HER decision, ultimately, of course, but I just believe his attitude is a bad one and one that increases the chances of making his daughter(s) rebellious. We all know about the overly strict father and / or husband whose wife cheats on him, his daughter runs away, etc. This is not just my personal theory, my priest gave a sermon about husbands who are too controlling with their wives and the fallout this causes.
It's the same in the Church, errors too far on the left OR right cause people to lose the faith. Since we live in the time of VII where most errors are on the left, people tend to swing too far in the other direction -- and I am convinced anti-Christ will be a far-right pseudo-Catholic rather than a far-left one like the VII crowd. People who are Jansenist types, like the Pharisees, tend to give people burdens that are greater than they can bear. God gives us our crosses, but extremists and letter-of-the-law types want to give themselves and others even more. It's extremely important to keep the proper balance in all things.