I do not think there is any contradiction in Mr. Lane's position.
He is merely pointing out that it is not the act of criticizing Bishop Fellay that has turned him off, but the manner and spirit of the criticism itself.
There is a Catholic way to make a point: Respectfully; respect does not limit the vigor of your opposition, but does temper it with charity.
There is an uncatholic way to make a point: Disrespectfully; disrespect does not enhance the vigor of your argumentation, but does remove the temper of charity.
Well said. I'm glad SpiritusSanctus brought this topic up. I actually found this quote of JohnLane quite true:
The most prolific contributors are now partially disguised "home-alone" or "anti-una-cuм" types. They have no dog in the fight, of course,
I don't think its true in all circuмstances here on CI, however, its mostly true. Think about it- are not some of the members here who post most prolifically on this crisis, regardless of correctness on the position, non-SSPX goers? (ie. "...no dog in the fight...") I'm not saying its wrong, but I agree with what Lane says next:
I suspect partly because they don't realise quite how irreligious some of them truly are.
And its this lack of religiosity that can be most disturbing, and also most revealing about why that is. This is why Seraphim is right. There is a right and wrong way to go about things, without compromising the seriousness and correctness of what you need to say. There is a more Catholic deportment; one that is free of being judgmental. I don't mean judgmental in terms of how Protestants throw around the word; not at all. I mean in determining who is a 'true trad' or not. These people who feel compelled to be the best polemists on this issue, do so because of one reason:
pride.
Granted, we're all susceptible to it. And if our own pride is evident to us, its can also be evident when judging the actions of others. This is what John Lane is speaking about, I believe. This is why the development of the interior life is so important. It tempers pride one may have when discussing intellectual topics. Its not that we ought not discuss these topics, but that we should do so with a sense of humility. You can be 'right' on the issue, have the best arguments, and be quick 'on your feet' with a discussion; but if you are prideful- you are only hurting yourself, even if you are 'right'.