which is why i have opted for eastern rite churches until the tide finally breaks and it is safe to surface. i don't feel the need to duck the "new prior" and i don't want to duck the crazy "friends of the exorcist"
I never understood the Catholics that go "eastern" as their response to the Crisis in the Church.
There is a famous saying: "To thine own self be true." If you were born in one of those countries with a different Rite, great! There is more than one legitimate, valid Rite in the Catholic Church. There's nothing wrong with the other Rites.
There's also nothing wrong with being Greek. But I, born of German and Irish descendants, cannot lay claim to being Greek no matter what happens to the world, the Church, or the economy. To me, it's simply not an option!
So if you're a white guy born in America, forget about it. You're Roman Rite. You were born and baptized in that Rite, and that is where God placed you. And so you should stay Roman Rite.
At what time in Church history was it normal for a person to change their Rite like people change their underwear? Never before Vatican II and its aftermath. Even "parish shopping" is a modern phenomena. But at least parish shoppers stick to the same Rite!
If you ask me, it's not all that dissimilar to a famous sports figure changing his gender, or an NAACP leader changing her race.
I'll tell you one thing -- it certainly screams "identity crisis" and/or "I'm a teenager" at the very least. Especially when said white guy has some eastern script in his sig line. :)
Talk about "confused" and/or "trying to find himself".