We had a similar case and it turned out the wife was on the prowl, she was cheating on her husband, an adulteress. Some husbands are naïve. One has to ask themselves, why does a mother of 6, or any mother, need to dress provocatively? Well, that husband found out the answer the hard way. The way they dress is just an outward manifestation of their soul.
Anyone with common sense and a basic knowledge of human nature would have seen this.
Why put your house on the market if "selling it" is completely out of the question? Obviously you're considering "offers" on your house if you bother to place it on the market.
Why attract so many men to you, if you supposedly already have a man, to whom you have promised yourself for life? It doesn't make sense.
And there is a world of difference between being beautiful and being provocative. Again, one has to appeal to common sense to tell the difference.
How about this standard? If the thing would make Our Lady, your sister, your mother, or your daughter more beautiful, then it's beauty. But if it would be disturbing to you, then it's probably a whore tactic.
Men instinctively know this, too. How many men react WELL, INTERNALLY, when they see their daughter wearing a miniskirt and 4 inch heels, dressed like a prostitute? NONE OF THEM. But most of them overcome their natural disgust and joke about it, etc.