Tiffany I agree with you. There seems to be a huge effort to blame the priests but I don't understand what exactly is expected of them. What they hear in the confessional they can do nothing about. As for what they hear outside of the confessional, do people expect them to meddle in everyone's families and business? Because honestly that's what personally investigating or calling the police on every rumor they heard would amount to and if they did that, people would be complaining!! Those wanting to blame the clergy should take a moment to really think about that. What do they want parish life to look like in reality, in practice. Other than counseling those who ask for it, the priests aren't exactly public enforcers and they aren't meant to be.
The blame goes where it ought to go, the father and the mother. Perhaps there were friends and neighbors who saw and did nothing.
Of course this is all assuming Dancing Eggs' version is completely and objectively accurate.