The problem is all these pastors, youth pastors and music directors keep telling us young folk what bores us, what we really like, what we find interesting. And guess what, THEY’RE WRONG!
I concluded the same in 1960's when I was a teenager. Today I'm a grandfather's age and I see parents making the same mistakes. We were all poisoned every last one of us no matter the age, everyone that lived through the changes from like 1955 and on. That's EVERYONE. Until we acknowledge this, we will keep return to the same vomit again.
It is the parents duty to lead, and it is not the job of the parent to be their childs playmate, or to be popular with young people. I think that is the problem with all of these pastors, youth minsters, music directors, they want to please the young, they want to be viewd as "cool", instead of being parents leaders, guides.
Just as important is that Catholics need to learn that the Church does not change, and never has been about change. They need to learn that the traditional mass is the same mass from the 1500's till 1954. It was only in 1955 that all manner of change was introduced, and it has not stopped. That is not Catholic. The Church is a solid anchor that is fixed in the ground, not an anchor that drags (as in 1950's), or a ship adrift like since Vatican II.
Just two simple teachings that will root Catholics in reality.