I’m still bothered by Pilar’s attitude. The Protestants, (I was one), often accuse Catholics of being tolerant of sin. After all, say many Protestants, all the Catholic has to do is go to confession, get absolved, and then go out and commit the same sins again.
Is this how Catholics, (e.g. the first families) in Pilar’s old parish behaved? I would gather as much from Pilar’s words. Safe to say, St. Paul would not have tolerated such behavior among the members of a Catholic congregation, though he reluctantly conceded that it had to be tolerated in society at large.
I Cor. 5:9, 10” I wrote to you in the letter not to associate with the immoral,( I.e. in your midst) Not meaning, of course, the immoral of this world, or the covetous, or the greedy, or idolators; otherwise you would have to leave the world…”
But, it seems, immorality among some Catholics in Pilar’s old parish was just a fact of life that one had to live with. Apparently, that was the attitude of the prior at ICC in Post Falls too.
In the letter to the Ephesians, St. Paul writes: “But immorality and every uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as becomes saints…”(5:3)