Obviously neither of you have ever had anything to do with me in other threads on the topic. It is a principle in our home that our children are never alone with anyone, even our family members whom we love very much and could never imagine would do any harm to them. They also don't get much "privacy", as in their own rooms, locked doors, excess time alone, private computers/phones etc...
I wish these were society-wide principles. But I've been bashed for that view as well. Too many people would be "offended." I really don't care. If anyone is offended, either a) they WANT time alone with my child and I'll become more suspicious of them or b) they wouldn't harm our children BUT value their own pride above a principle that keeps our children safe, therefore I don't trust their judgment 100% either. Obviously I would not say so to them directly but would simply log the observation away in my mind.
Were we in Post Falls right now, none of our habits would have to change to protect ourselves from whatever is going on. All protections are already in place as far as is humanly possible. The rest we leave to God and our Guardian Angels.
Also, were we in Post Falls, we'd have more direct access to the full story, probably some personal experiences about who is trustworthy in their reporting abilities, and could think and act with more conviction. Half a story vs a whole story is a concept you really have difficulty wrapping your mind around, as is direct experience vs secondhand info.