A great ship went down, many people end up in the water, two lucky ones found a dingy each.
Mr Dingy 1 shouts to the others in the water : you idiots are wrong to be in the water, I am right to be in the dingy, get lost !
Mr Dingy 2 reaches out to them : you better get out of the water and get into my dingy, it'll be better for you.
Mr Dingy 2 has charity. Mr Dingy 1 has not.
Does that make Mr Dingy 2 a 'woman', a wimp, unable to think, acting on feelings only, weak, coward, useless in a fight ?
Charity covers a multitude of sins and pride comes before the fall.
Quite the analogy, but okay, I'll bit . . . like the shark that you think I am! Mr. Dingy 2 would be a 'woman', a wimp, unable to think, acting on feelings only, weak, coward, useless in a fight, if, after he said:
"you better get out of the water and get into my dingy, it'll be better for you" HE THEN SAYS: "I retract my opinions." And, on more than one occasion, while watching the others drown as he continues to fret and bite his nails. But, you know, Mr. Nobody, you are being uncharitable to the core, because you harp on these things. Others, like myself, just throw it out there and hope/pray that the words nudge someone to rethink their sloppy thinking!