I posted it as "Connecticut" -- and will continue to do so -- for several reasons:
1. It was a very short drive (around 30-40 min.) from the usual chapel in CT.
2. I thought it was in Connecticut. I was driven there; I had no clue where I was. The East Coast is about as familiar to me as downtown Paris or the Moon.
3. The location (Fire station) was where the Connecticut group had their Mass that Sunday.
4. The overwhelming majority of attendees were indeed from CT.
5. Fr. Zendejas only has one major group up there, as far as I know -- and it's CT. So this is the "Connecticut" confirmations. It's silly to call it the NY confirmations, when there's not even a distinct group of Fr. Zendejas-affiliated Catholics in NY. At least not yet.
6. So I did it for the sake of simplicity. If my local chapel (Post office says Seguin, I'm closer to Marion, but closest major city is San Antonio) had Confirmations, it wouldn't be horribly deceptive to call them the "San Antonio confirmations" or the name of whatever city my chapel gets called the most (probably Seguin). But what if I had confirmations and a huge group of 150 was going to arrive? I might rent something in nearby McQueeney, TX. What would I call the group then? Not everyone out there knows that McQueeney is a few miles east of Marion, which is X miles west of San Antonio, etc. You can't expect people hundreds of miles away to be aware of minute details of local geography.
7. Last but not least, I really don't feel like changing a bunch of thread titles, etc. just because some young lady in NY decided to "out" the location. She can out it; the conference is over now. It's a bit annoying, but whatever. Still, I'm not going to change all the thread titles.
8. If Fr. Zendejas' enemies wanted to track these people down, infiltrate them, etc., they would indeed have to look in CT and not in NY. So I have to be accurate, to be fair to those personal enemies of Fr. Zendejas. (Hahaha...just kidding!)
I hope this answers your questions.
Seriously though, #8 is a valid reason. If I had mentioned a different place, the Pfeiffer fans would scream, "You're trying to intentionally be deceptive. This is the Connecticut group!" Or, "You're trying to make it harder for us to track you down by pretending it's a different location!"
I've learned in my short life that some people will never be happy.
If you keep it on the down-low, you're "secretive".
If you advertise it widely, you're "sheep stealing and trying to take away our support" because "every dollar donated at that event, and every dollar spent on airfare, hotels, etc. by parishioners from other states could have been saved to be donated later to Fr. Pfeiffer's local chapels in their home states!"
It's classic "damned if you do, damned if you don't".
I'd like to point out something else.
I remember saying these same lines of defense recently. Oh, I know when it was! Bishop Faure's consecration. This is *almost exactly* the same situation. 150 people, but it "wasn't advertised much beforehand" and the ceremony was "secret" or at least "not public enough" according to the neo-SSPX. Fr. Pfeiffer supported that gathering though by going himself. He was OK with the whole thing, because he was invited.
Now we have another gathering of 150 people and the EXACT SAME ARGUMENTS are being used against it, this time by fans of Fr. Pfeiffer.
Give me a break?