You are painting with a broad brush my friend. I listen to Fr Hewko regularly and I wouldn't act like the guy in the car. I think you have an axe to grind against Fr Hewko because he has been so critical of Bp Williamson's...
Yes, that's what rational people do. It's impossible to philosophize or seek the truth without generalizing. Exceptions don't make discussion useless, they prove the rule.
This has nothing to do with my opinion(s) about Fr. Hewko. The statements I said (above) stand on their own. Anyone the least bit objective, with any skill at pulling out the "essence" of a person/group, extracting the big picture, whatever you want to call it, will understand what I'm getting at.
Fr. Hewko attracts exceptionalists, special boys, weirdos, autists, whatever you want to call it. He de-facto claims he's the "only true resistance" and likes to boldly fight against those who he should be allied with. He nit picks and finds fault with those he should be friendly with, and obviously encourages this in his flock by his example if nothing else.
And any "group" that is basically a cult of personality (directed to a single man) is going to be like this. Especially a bit weird, "apocalyptic" or waiting for the end, etc. It's hard to not be apocalyptic when your group/church is affiliated with only a few other living room churches dotted around the entire United States.
But it's not simply about numbers or size either. You could have a small group but the priest is more normal, and/or different priests come to serve your chapel, and the outlook of most parishioners will be more balanced.
This is definitely an interesting topic of conversation. But what it's NOT is "random ad-hominems that have no basis, merely springing from Matthew's personal hatred" or something like that.
What do YOU think, dear viewer?