I can certainly relate to your above two posts, Viva Cristo Rey. I love the TLM, but those who attend it...not so much.
One of the local Indult priests said in a sermon about a year ago that those who attend the TLM expect that the Mass itself will make them holy, but that no, it has to go beyond that. They (we) have to strive beyond that. There's some truth to what he said, I think.