How about this -- if you live in Boston, KY, how about you check it out ONCE.
You think God is going to send you to Hell for going there ONCE to see for yourself? Please.
If you find yourself in the environs of Boston, KY, this whole issue is not just academic for you. You are being tasked with figuring this out, with the spiritual welfare of your family at stake. YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF AND YOUR FAMILY to look into all your options, and pick the best one.
If you foolishly follow the second-hand advice of someone whose advice shouldn't be followed, it will be your fault if he was wrong and you followed him.
For something lasting years and hundreds of visits like family attendance at a Traditional chapel, a man shouldn't delegate the job to anyone else. A man should take the reins and check them out himself. If he cares about his family's spiritual welfare and takes his duties seriously, that is.
Anything less is laziness and apathy -- both physical and spiritual.
If more people heeded this advice, we'd have more support for support-worthy chapels, less support for bad chapels/priests, and less thriving cults.