This whole issue has polarized the parish more than any other scandal we have endured. When the Sisters first came and started in on their agenda there were many arguments. Now we just do not really talk about anything of substance.
Here is a short list of what we have to endure:
- They have taken over as sacristans as you know.
-Taken over the choir almost completely as their rule will not let them sing with men so that was easy to fix. They just asked the few men we had to leave. We do have a very good men's schola, although they seem to sing about a third of the time, with the sisters singing the rest of the time.
-They lead a decade of the parish rosary. (Yes, lead the priests and laity in prayer in the church.)
-They handle the sacred vessels barehanded in front of the whole parish.
-They intone for the priest all the time even when they are not the schola.(Yes, lead the priests in an official church function)
-They ring the main church bells. (The men and the boys used to do this.)
-They have had the school girls sing as the schola several times.
-This list can go on and on.
They do not really serve Mass, but as they have been steadily digressing since they arrived I can see it coming. Many of the elders of the parish say they have not seen the like since the Norvus Ordo arrived.
Yes, indeed this sounds like a problem.
I would repeat what I said earlier: These are the actions of a slippery slope, frog-boiling operation. Today, leading a decade of the Rosary. Tomorrow, leading the whole Rosary. Next week, reading the Epistle and Gospel during Mass. (Especially if Rome came out with some kind of hybrid Mass or official change to the so-called "Extraordinary Form")
But I'm not just saying this because I'm negative or against the Neo-SSPX. I actually have good, principled reasons for being against these things. And it goes far beyond legalism. On the contrary -- it's more a question of customs, prudence, and what is fitting for the boys present, etc.
This seems to be in line with the modern world's opinion of men and women -- that women should be the pious ones specializing in "religion" and men are just along for the ride.
The exact opposite of how God intended it to be!What message does it send when men are discouraged from their normal, authoritative roles? What does that do to the many boys and young men present? Wouldn't it turn them off of Trad Catholicism, even as they are turned off of Public School (which has also been taken over by women)?
What will it do to male piety, and male vocations?
The men should ring the bells, serve as sacristans, serve as Ushers, serve Mass, and sing in the Schola. The visible actions going on when everyone is present should be done by men. Behind the scenes, the women can take care of altar linens, flowers, etc. but they should remember St. Paul's admonition that women should "be silent in Church" with a veil over their heads.
Not flattering to female pride, no, but it's the right path nonetheless. Actually, it's God's will!