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My defense of the Resistance to a family member
« on: June 26, 2013, 11:17:06 AM »
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  • I had to write this response to a close family member, after having received a SNAIL MAIL letter from them, full of fraternal correction regarding my support of the Resistance.


     I don't really want to waste a bunch of time arguing about the "Crisis in the SSPX".

    Especially when the arguments are the ones I heard back in May 2012 when the whole thing just started.

    "Obedience is always a safe path to sanctity." or something to that effect.

    Yes, in the religious life, when it's not a matter of faith. But a layman can't just place himself in a position of blind trust in an organization of MEN that isn't infallible, when the Faith is involved.

    Many other trad organizations have "sold out" over the years -- what's guaranteeing the SSPX? Just because they were God's favorite for years doesn't mean they always will be.

    But the point is that I've seen countless evidence of real problems in the SSPX. Things that have happened. Proof. And all the evidence points to the fact that they're losing it. It's not something that can be flippantly denied.

    Anyhow, [family member]'s statement about Obedience being the way to go really made me laugh -- that's not what she did in the early 1970's. She got up and left the Novus Ordo. She didn't follow the path of "obedience" or we  wouldn't have so many Traditional Catholics in our extended family today. She is completely contradicting herself and her own life.

    Just because we're used to the recent Popes being "bad guys" doesn't mean that Catholics in 1970 didn't consider the Pope to be a nice guy, their "Holy Father", just like [family member] considers Bishop Fellay (abbreviated +Fellay) today. They were just as inclined to trust him. That's why they are brainwashed novus ordo Catholics today, having suffered all the damage the novus ordo had to offer for the past 40 years.

    You and I, and [family member], have "taken that step" where we believe the Pope is not on our side, is making big mistakes, is damaging Christ's cause, etc. I've simply made the same step re: +Fellay. Considering the Pope has Christ's promise, and +Fellay does not, why is that such an incredible move?

    ...

    Anyhow, believe me, many CathInfo members (or ex-members) have attempted to argue (more like, flip the lights on and off several times) and try to "wake everyone up" so to speak, trying to invalidate the whole thing with a simple revelation or statement. But we're beyond that now. There is no simple statement, axiom, etc. that's going to magically wipe out all the CRAP that I've seen and heard in the SSPX for the past 13 months.

    I've seen good priests punished for quoting Abp. Lefebvre. I've seen Abp. Lefebvre's hand-picked bishop expelled unjustly. I've seen +W illegally excluded from the last General Chapter. Those aren't rumors, or "things +Fellay MIGHT do in the future." Those crimes alone are already sufficient reason to leave the SSPX, nevermind support the Resistance.

    I am not alone, and I am in very good company. (+W, Dr. White, and many good priests, and some of the most fervent Catholic laymen -- those who have supported the SSPX for years or decades)

    And many more good priests understand there is a problem, but haven't taken full action yet. But notice they haven't just dismissed the whole thing as a freak occurrence. "All the sudden, thousands of SSPX Catholics worldwide threw their spiritual life out the window and started working for the devil. AAAUGH!"
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    My defense of the Resistance to a family member
    « Reply #1 on: June 26, 2013, 11:20:53 AM »
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  • Is it Dulcamara?


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    « Reply #2 on: June 26, 2013, 11:28:52 AM »
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  • Quote from: Telesphorus
    Is it Dulcamara?


    No. She wasn't around during Vatican II :)
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    « Reply #3 on: June 26, 2013, 12:27:33 PM »
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    Dear Matthew,

    I've read the whole OP and I wholeheartedly agree!  Very well stated.

    I didn't want to re-post the whole thing here, so early in the thread,
    but I have a comment regarding the entire basis of this theme.

    You touch on it briefly in the first few sentences, but then proceed
    to the main points of your OP, which is fine.  You did the right thing.

    I attended an SSPX retreat 18 months ago, one of the St. Ignatius
    of Loyola 'abbreviated' retreats.  The full version is 30 days long,
    and it is my dream to be able to do that one fine day, God willing!

    But as it was, I only was able to swing the short version of the
    short version.  They have compressed the 30 days into a 5-day
    short version, but then they also have a 3-day "Specialty Retreat"
    aimed at giving those who have already been to a 5-day a bit of
    a brush-up.  There's a lot I could say about my experience, but I
    don't know if anyone cares about that.  Suffice it to say, the
    intensity of this 3-day Specialty Retreat for one who has never
    had an Ignatian Retreat was absolutely overwhelming.  It endures
    to this day in my memory.  I wanted it to go on forever!  Although,
    if it had gone on for another 27 days, I may have been ready to
    move on, back to 'real life'!  -- But who knows?  

    Anyway, the purpose of this post is, that the big axiom they push
    in this retreat is that when you experience disquiet or a disturbance
    of soul, a loss of peace and turbulence, so to speak, the best thing
    to do is to NOT CHANGE ANYTHING.  Keep your daily routine, and
    let God's grace work on your spirit, so that by prayer and penance
    (the principal penance being to not overreact to the disquiet) you
    may soon regain your peace of soul.

    I'm referring to this:

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    "Obedience is always a safe path to sanctity." or something to that effect.

    Yes, in the religious life, when it's not a matter of faith. But a layman can't just place himself in a position of blind trust in an organization of MEN that isn't infallible, when the Faith is involved.


    This 'obedience' theme is part of the 'do not change anything' axiom,
    for obedience is a normal state of affairs for a person in the religious
    life, which you point out.  

    The 30-day Ignatian Retreats, and by 'extension' (more like
    'compression' HAHAHA), the 3-day Specialty/Weekend Retreat, is
    principally geared for participation by clerics and religious who are
    under some vow of obedience or pledge of fidelity to a pious union,
    inasmuch as this 'do not change anything' is held as being a most
    important principle;  and they are generally speaking of something
    that is not really a matter of faith, but of more practical concerns.  

    But as you say, for laymen, it is UNWISE or perhaps even negligent
    for him to place himself in a position of blind trust in an
    organization of MEN that isn't infallible, when the Faith is
    involved.




    In sum, it is rather a matter of pretense or false representation that
    the Menzingen-denizens have co-opted this message of 'do not
    change anything' from St. Ignatius of Loyola, founder of the great
    Society of Jesus and Superior General of the greatest missionary
    order in the history of the Church.  They say this, not to 'change'
    anything, while they proceed to CHANGE MANY THINGS right in plain
    sight!  They claim to have the 'grace of state' (which everyone has)
    and a kind of monopoly on "prudence" (another lie), and furthermore,
    they tout the pretense of being in CONTROL of Society priests'
    supplied jurisdiction, because (they say!) that the SG of this pious
    union of priests has the power of supplied jurisdiction at his fingertips,
    and can shut it off as a means of PUNISHMENT for those who dare
    to state their own duly-considered concerns for how he is going off
    the rails in his unprecedented and unjust demands on them.

    I know you must cringe when you see me say, "His Eagerness, B.
    Fellay," (HEBF) and I don't want to cause any trouble.  But for crying
    out loud, I wouldn't be doing it if HEBF had not started the ball rolling
    with his accordista agenda.  Mine is merely an answer to his own
    impudence in the face of everything that is holy, good, true and
    beautiful.  

    We now await Fr. Morgan's Denouncement Announcement in the
    wake of Fr. Girouard's great article from yesterday and his most
    excellent sermons in support of the Resistance.  In it, we are
    promised the latest-and-greatest in dialectical excuses for why we
    should 'not change anything' and continue to PRAY, PAY AND OBEY,
    even though the Menzingen-denizens have no jurisdiction and no
    right whatsoever to the obedience of the Faithful, other than of
    course, their urging us to comply with the law of God and of His
    Church -- provided, that is, there IS a Church with which we can
    comply, that is, a Mass true to Her Doctrine and free from the
    wickedness and snares of the devil, by which we would lose our
    faith!



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    My defense of the Resistance to a family member
    « Reply #4 on: June 26, 2013, 12:47:15 PM »
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  • Does anyone think that this mess will be to Fellay what signing the deal with Rome was to Lefebvre? Or has it already gone too far. Have we lost all hope in Fellay by now? I think I have, but have you all?
    R.I.P.
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    « Reply #5 on: June 26, 2013, 12:55:46 PM »
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  • Maybe not the place to say this but, her goes:

    My family goes to an FSSP  parish. I have come to understand that most people here believe it's wrong. If I go to an SSPX parish, most people here seem to believe it's wrong. I obviously won't go to a Novus Ordo parish. Again, most people here would flay me alive for doing that. Where does that leave me and I believe many millions of others? The resistance? Where is this resistance? Do they meet in people's home's and have prayers sessions like protestants?

    I thought I understood my faith, but the further I go the more confused I get. It seems everything is wrong and nothing is right. I can't seem to do anything that gives me peace.

    So, I stay in my FSSP parish and pray. Waiting for God to grant me direction. I wish I had the conviction of the many good people in this forum.

    Pax.
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    « Reply #6 on: June 26, 2013, 01:01:17 PM »
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  • I have since time ago: have trust only in +W and the Resistants' Priests.

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    « Reply #7 on: June 26, 2013, 01:36:54 PM »
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    Maybe [it's] not the place to say this but, here goes:

    My family goes to an FSSP  parish. I have come to understand that most people here believe it's wrong. If I go to an SSPX parish, most people here seem to believe it's wrong. I obviously won't go to a Novus Ordo parish. Again, most people here would flay me alive for doing that. Where does that leave me and I believe many millions of others? The resistance? Where is this resistance? Do they meet in people's homes and have prayer-sessions like protestants?

    I thought I understood my faith, but the further I go the more confused I get. It seems everything is wrong and nothing is right. I can't seem to do anything that gives me peace.

    So, I stay in my FSSP parish and pray. Waiting for God to grant me direction. I wish I had the conviction of the many good people in this forum.

    Pax.



    Peace, Brother Napoli!  May "peace be with you," as Our Lord said
    when He entered the upper room with all the Apostles who were
    MOST DISTURBED in ways we can hardly imagine!


    I would like to encourage you, Napoli.  I think you're doing the right
    thing, on several levels.  

    A)   Your presence in the FSSP chapel is a testament to your faith
           in the indefectability of the Blessed Sacrament.

    B)   You are able to obtain plenary indulgences by your praying
           your Rosary in the Real Presence reserved in the Tabernacle.

    C)   You can never know the power of the grace that someone
           else may receive by the fact that they saw you there.

    D)   You do not have to explain yourself, nor do you have to try
           to 'spread the word' of the Resistance when you go to the
           FSSP chapel -- all you're doing is praying, and going to Mass.

    E)   I am not making this up, because it was precisely by the
           living example of one small family going to a NovusOrdo
           parish daily Mass that I was able to come to the awareness
           of the existence of the Traditional Movement in the first
           place.

    F)   It is by the Grace of God that these things happen, and not
           because of anything that we do, HOWEVER, it is also BY
           WAY OF our actions and faith that the grace of God can
           find its way to those who would receive it.  

    G)   You should be able to go to your SSPX parish as well, but
           whether you can face the ridicule or whatever is another
           question, and it's up to you to make that judgment.  But
           even with a family, we live in a time when making the trip
           far away to assist at Mass in a distant location is something
           that we do, and nobody should be passing judgment on you
           for your effort to provide the True Mass to your family.


    THEREFORE, I say to you, brother, go forth and be yourself;  go
    to the FSSP chapel, pray your Rosary, go to Confession, assist
    at Mass, cringe during the sermon if you hear things you cannot
    stand to hear, and do not be afraid to speak to anyone if the
    spirit moves you, but if the spirit does not move you, then just
    keep going, and offer your disquiet as a penance to God for the
    reparation of sins committed against the Immaculate Heart of
    Mary, which are of 5 categories, as you know -- one of them
    being blasphemy against her by way of disrespect for her sacred
    images.  Find a shrine there with a statue of Our Lady, and pray
    your Rosary there, and before the Blessed Sacrament.  

    And especially, if any children ask you what you're doing, take
    a moment to speak to them softly, sincerely, and with great
    devotion to Our Lady, such that you may make reparation for
    the blasphemies perpetrated by those who would seek to  
    destroy this spirit of love for Our Lady in the innocent hearts of
    her children.

    May the peace of Our Lord, through Our Lady's intercession, be
    with you.  Do this and you shall have peace.  (N.B. It might take
    a lot longer than you'd like, but it will come eventually, and the
    confidence that it will come eventually is in itself, a kind of peace.)
     


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    « Reply #8 on: June 26, 2013, 01:55:14 PM »
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  • Neils response is exactly why I joined this forum. Christian charity is a beautiful thing. I was moved by his compassionand uunderstanding.
    God bless.
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    « Reply #9 on: June 26, 2013, 02:06:12 PM »
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  • Quote from: Matthew
    "Obedience is always a safe path to sanctity." or something to that effect.

    Yes, in the religious life, when it's not a matter of faith. But a layman can't just place himself in a position of blind trust in an organization of MEN that isn't infallible, when the Faith is involved.


    You should send the quote that Militia Jesu has in his excellent Letter of Appeal to the Unfaithful to Resistance

    Quote from: Militia Jesu

    “A BLIND OBEDIENCE … has little to do with a practice and acceptance of true Catholic Faith… One must understand the meaning of obedience and must distinguish between BLIND OBEDIENCE and the VIRTUE OF OBEDIENCE.  Indiscriminate obedience is actually A SIN AGAINST THE VIRTUE OF OBEDIENCE.” (Archbishop Lefebvre, USA, July, 1978).

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    « Reply #10 on: June 26, 2013, 02:42:16 PM »
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  • I know you are only trying to do what is best, but the FSSP is compromised. Keep your eyes open.
    R.I.P.
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    « Reply #11 on: June 26, 2013, 05:05:55 PM »
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  • Thanks Matto. At there seminary in Nebraska, the majority are SSPX sympathisers. If only God would grant them a Bishop. I believe that would end this facade of being part of the concilliar church. I agree that the FSSP has been infiltrated.

    Pax
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    « Reply #12 on: June 27, 2013, 08:27:33 PM »
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  • Quote from: Matto
    Does anyone think that this mess will be to Fellay what signing the deal with Rome was to Lefebvre? Or has it already gone too far. Have we lost all hope in Fellay by now? I think I have, but have you all?


    That is most important question. I think that I, like so many, would wish that "things" might be as they once were by some seeing the light in Menzingen and just to read something from them which is not fuzzy or cleverly worded does raise the pulse of hope at least a little.
    But I do think that we have passed the "you can't go home again "sign a few miles back. There is now suspicion established in our minds, and caution, and a scrutinizing response to these men.
    It seems that the path behind us has been cut off by all that has occured and there is no longer a possibility of return. Our only option is to move forward and pray that we can find trust and hope at the next station.