In a traditional Catholic society divorce would be illegal and even if he just ran off man would likely end up behind bars for child neglect.
True, but we don't live in a Catholic society. In a Catholic society I'd be living with relatives and engaged in work for them or for charity through the Church. I wouldn't have to concern myself with working in the world to keep a roof over my head, food, clothing, medical care, etc. I was hoping for a serious discussion of today's reality. Maybe this is the wrong place. I'll move it to Women Only, but it would be good to hear from a married man whose daughters could possibly find themselves trying to save their souls without family or parish assistance.