Jassy is clearly overreacting. “Oh my gosh! Think of the children!” Classic argument of SJW types who are intimidated by something. What is Father supposed to do to humor her? Ship Fr. Duverger off to Africa? Oh wait, that’s just moving the problem. Ship him to a religious prison? Probably. And that’s exactly what Fr. Wegner and James Vogel were discussing in their emails. You want to apologize for any offense, make the girl happy, and you certainly don’t want her to raise a media storm (as is happening now) but when what she asks is basically impossible or, in your mind, unjust, what to do?
If Jassy said “he asked me to take off my clothes” or “he asked me to send him photos” or “he asked me to meet him in his apartment” it would be one thing. But as it is, there’s absolutely nothing here that’s clearly wrong, let alone criminal.