If a priest is found, in a court of law, guilty of sex abuse, he should get the same punishment as any other pedophile. End of story.
Couldn't agree more.
I don't mean this in an unkind way, but the young woman might consider Anglicizing or changing her last name. "Jacas" --- say it slowly three times. Sounds rather uncomplimentary. I suppose the problem would take care of itself, if she married and took her husband's name.
The priest asking the woman to write down all the nitty-gritty of her sex life sounds kind of bogus. It would suffice, I'd think, to state the ways in which a person can sin sɛҳuąƖly, then let her compare her behavior to the Church's teaching. In this particular case, I could be wrong.