ideally, i will have someone doing the cleaning for me...and a husband who can cook too...who sews anymore?
It sounds like "ideally" means you are not yet married?
Anyhow, if you don't cook or clean, what exactly do you do? Do you know how to fix everything around the house (plumbing, carpentry, electrical...?), do you know how to fix the car, boat, tractor, lawnmower, weedeater? Do you know how to generate a six figure income?
What exactly are you bringing to "the picnic" of a marriage?