Ahhhhh Soulguard. Charity in all things. To "Demand" anything, let alone the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, is a bit brass and untasteful to say the least. Such Masses are NEVER secret. They are usually offered on short notice, but are never secret. For instance, they did not post this weeks Mass locations until last Friday. If you go to the website you will see clearly listed, the addresses of all Masses being ofbfered this weekend.
Hang in there little buckarooo. Don't let your frustration get the best of you. Mass locations are usually posted no later than Friday night. This is not done to be secret but simplya mattrr of dollar's and cents. The good priests look at how much they received in donations, how many folks are requesting the Mass, and where they can afford to fly. I feel quite certain that if you have a group who desires the Mass and are willing to help the Father's pay for the flight, they will try their very best to work you into their schedule very busy schedule.