Oh dear I didn't consider confirmation. I was "confirmed" in the novus ordo so I don't believe my confirmation is valid and was hoping to get a conditional confirmation with the SSPX in the future, this is definitely going to be a big problem.
It won't be possible, unfortunately.
Even if a real bishop confirms you, you can never know who consecrated the Holy Oils.
If you ask about it, chances are that you won't get an answer and you likely will receive ill treatment just because you asked.
My advice (even if unasked) is that you look for a Sedevacantist bishop. You can check his validity before asking for your conditional confirmation.
On the bright side, you can get to heaven without confirmation. It is obviously important to get a valid confirmation, but it is not essential for salvation.