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Offline Ladislaus

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Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
« Reply #240 on: November 17, 2019, 05:08:50 PM »
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  • No, as I said, they would be venially immodest at the grocery store or elsewhere.  They would only be worn during volleyball games and practices.  Wearing them to Mass would exacerbate the sin, although I would not consider this mortally sinful even at Mass.

    Why it's wrong for the coach and not the girls illustrates my point exactly.  Coach has no proportionate reason for wearing the outfit (she's not playing), while the girls have the proportionate reason of being able to function properly during a volleyball game and not risk injury.  I've attempted to explain the notion of proportionate reason.  Coach has none, but the girls do.

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #241 on: November 17, 2019, 05:22:15 PM »
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  • First of all, it'd do you well to actually post the picture he was referring to and not a different one entirely.
    He was referring to the picture I posted, it is the picture that started this thread. The picture you posted was brought up later. 


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #242 on: November 17, 2019, 05:26:04 PM »
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  • No, as I said, they would be venially immodest at the grocery store or elsewhere.  They would only be worn during volleyball games and practices.  Wearing them to Mass would exacerbate the sin, although I would not consider this mortally sinful even at Mass.

    Why it's wrong for the coach and not the girls illustrates my point exactly.  Coach has no proportionate reason for wearing the outfit (she's not playing), while the girls have the proportionate reason of being able to function properly during a volleyball game and not risk injury.  I've attempted to explain the notion of proportionate reason.  Coach has none, but the girls do.
    So you are saying that you would not allow your daughters to wear those outfits to mass and the grocery stores? Is it because of the length or because they are shabby clothes?  

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #243 on: November 17, 2019, 05:29:07 PM »
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  • My biggest problem is with the haughty, self-righteous, Pharisaical attitude of standing in judgment over everyone ... whether or not you have all the facts or can present a rational argument.  You refuse to entertain distinctions or degrees of sin or proportionate reasons.  You pretend that moral theology is binary, or at least act like it, that either something is a mortal sin or it's perfect, that there's nothing in between.  You paint moral theology as black-and-white, whereas in actuality it admits of much gray, with prudential considerations being weighed in.  Most of all, you refuse to give anyone of the benefit of the doubt, but immediately stand on your soapbox to denounce these girls as whores ... simply because you can catch a glimpse of knee from their uniforms.

    Trust me, God is much more offended by arrogant judgmental self-righteous Pharisaism than by a glimpse of female knee.
    You did not address the comment above to anyone, to whom is it addressed? 

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #244 on: November 17, 2019, 05:34:51 PM »
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  • So you are saying that you would not allow your daughters to wear those outfits to mass and the grocery stores? Is it because of the length or because they are shabby clothes?  

    On both counts.  They are above the knee (and shabby).  To say that they are venially immodest is not to say that they are OK.  People confuse venial sin with no sin.  It's still a sin and it offends God, and it's compounded by doing the sin at Mass.


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #245 on: November 17, 2019, 05:36:34 PM »
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  • He was referring to the picture I posted, it is the picture that started this thread. The picture you posted was brought up later.
    I went back to that thread and checked. He even refers to them wearing knee-pads in the comment. In your pic there are no knee-pads.

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #246 on: November 17, 2019, 05:37:01 PM »
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  • You did not address the comment above to anyone, to whom is it addressed?

    To whomever it may apply.  I'm not so much put off by WHAT is being said as by HOW it's being said ... by some folks.  There's an undertone of "these dirty whores" in some of the posts on this thread.

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #247 on: November 17, 2019, 05:40:07 PM »
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  • I went back to that thread and checked. He even refers to them wearing knee-pads in the comment. In your pic there are no knee-pads.

    Right, I think that they're probably the same uniforms.  When they're sitting down, they're hiked up.  When they're standing up, you can see that they hit barely above the knee AND they are wearing kneepads.  With the kneepads on, I would say that they are not immodest at all.

    I've actually seen women wear these somewhat shorter skirts ... several inches above the knee, but then these relatively-thick leggings come down below the knee underneath the skirts ... to the point that it does not appear immodest at all to me.


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #248 on: November 17, 2019, 05:48:55 PM »
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  • Is this immodest?  My opinion is that it is not.


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #249 on: November 17, 2019, 05:53:41 PM »
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  • Is this immodest?  My opinion is that it is not.


    The extra-thickness does seem to make a big difference. Normal thin-leggings with a skirt like that would be very distracting, but those aren't really to me. Still, best not to cede ground on cases like that. You give an inch, some girls will take a mile.

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #250 on: November 17, 2019, 07:00:55 PM »
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  • My biggest problem is with the haughty, self-righteous, Pharisaical attitude of standing in judgment over everyone ... whether or not you have all the facts or can present a rational argument.  You refuse to entertain distinctions or degrees of sin or proportionate reasons.  You pretend that moral theology is binary, or at least act like it, that either something is a mortal sin or it's perfect, that there's nothing in between.  You paint moral theology as black-and-white, whereas in actuality it admits of much gray, with prudential considerations being weighed in.  Most of all, you refuse to give anyone of the benefit of the doubt, but immediately stand on your soapbox to denounce these girls as whores ... simply because you can catch a glimpse of knee from their uniforms.

    Trust me, God is much more offended by arrogant judgmental self-righteous Pharisaism than by a glimpse of female knee.
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    To whomever it may apply.  I'm not so much put off by WHAT is being said as by HOW it's being said ... by some folks.  There's an undertone of "these dirty whores" in some of the posts on this thread.

    If it is not addressed to anyone and has no quotes that prove the accusations you are making, then it is just an irrational emotional outburst and a strawman. I have not seen anyone here call those girls whores. I have not seen any "haughty, self-righteous, Pharisaical attitude of standing in judgment over everyone". The outburst is what is totally out of proportion. If it is addressed to someone then it is a detraction, a mortal sin. You and SJ are constantly detracting against each other like little children, one of you needs to grow up and rise above it. 


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #251 on: November 17, 2019, 07:05:40 PM »
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  • I went back to that thread and checked. He even refers to them wearing knee-pads in the comment. In your pic there are no knee-pads.
    He refers to the coach being dressed inappropriately, the coach dressed inappropriately is the woman at the right end of the first picture, the discussion started with the first picture.   

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #252 on: November 17, 2019, 07:11:54 PM »
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  • Is this immodest?  My opinion is that it is not.


    By your own analysis, there is no reason for the skirt to be so short, she is not playing any sport that requires a short dress.

    By my analysis, there is not much to see in the picture, it is not clear. The skirt could be tight and thin and she is wearing a G-string that is clearly marked. Maybe the stocking only go up a little past the skirt and when she sits you can see the upper thighs, like French maid outfits.

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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #253 on: November 17, 2019, 07:28:13 PM »
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  • On both counts.  They are above the knee (and shabby).  To say that they are venially immodest is not to say that they are OK.  People confuse venial sin with no sin.  It's still a sin and it offends God, and it's compounded by doing the sin at Mass.
    You are doing the same thing as the Cushinites who "say" they don't believe in salvation of Muslims, Jews, etc., but they spend days teaching people that people can be saved somehow outside of the Church. You spent all this time defending what those girls are wearing while now saying that "to say that they are venially immodest is not to say that they are OK.  People confuse venial sin with no sin.  It's still a sin and it offends God, and it's compounded by doing the sin at Mass". Anyone that reads this thread will conclude that you approve of those uniforms and that you would be OK with your daughters and anyone's daughters wearing the same outfits to mass or the store. Your nitpicking about mortal sin vs venial during all of this thread was totally off the subject.  You should have said from the beginning:

    I do not approve of the outfits,  "They are above the knee (and shabby).  They are venially immodest. To say that they are venially immodest is not to say that they are OK.  People confuse venial sin with no sin.  It's still a sin and it offends God, and it's compounded by doing the sin at Mass".


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    Re: Holy Family Academy - ANOTHER SCANDAL IN PHOENIX
    « Reply #254 on: November 17, 2019, 07:32:21 PM »
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  • Is this immodest?  My opinion is that it is not.


    Well, I wouldn't wear it.  I wouldn't allow my daughters, if I had any, to wear it.  It looks like black leggings with a black mini-skirt.  It's much too form-fitting.  Why not leggings beneath looser and longer (below knee) culottes?