I just got an email from a friend who thought that neoSSPX "branding" was fine
That's just ludicrous. What's apparent to me is that many trads have a broken moral sensibility, and I think the cultish atmosphere of the SSPX has caused that. In particular the value of honesty and fidelity seems to be lost on them.
that Bp. Fellay was a victim and that his detractors are sedes or schismatics.
There's no argument there, just cult thinking:
"sede is BAD, schismatic" (no matter that the Archbishop said the position was possible)
"being condemned by the SSPX makes one schismatic, but the conciliar church IS the Church" (no matter that Bishop Fellay has juridical no authority over Catholics, again, no regard or understanding of what Archbishop Lefebvre said)
It doesn't matter to them that the resistance priests aren't sedes, they don't understand the SSPX is no the Church, their sense of truth and Catholic identity has been reduced to their identity as part of the SSPX. Sometimes one suspects these +Fellay supporters are becoming as cynical as the priests behind this. Otherwise they must be very dull people.