What was “alarming” about how he celebrated Mass?
It’s very sad when a Catholic must go for weeks, months, or years without Mass and Sacraments for fear of invalid priests. During the c-sickness, I first heard of families taking matters in their own hands by doing lay baptisms, of infants, but also of older children and adults. I wasn’t comfortable with it until one of the adults died of it. (No 💉as it wasn’t yet available.) Then there was the wedding with two Catholic witnesses, no priest. I thought it was going too far, but when there was another wedding after parish refusal for over three years, making it a six year engagement, I changed my mind.