You do have a point here that's been lost. Whether or not the secular authority has any right to restrict Mass attendance, the hierarchy most certainly does. One can argue argue about whether they should have done so, but one cannot, short of being a sedevacantist who considers them illegitimate, dispute that they have this right.
I can only speak of here in the US, but from what I've heard, the Bishops have suspended "public masses", not private ones. Some liberal bishops may have cancelled everything. ?
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Now, I'm not sure if the Pope himself forbade Mass attendance around the world, but I'm sure that he backs the decisions of the local episcopate. So, since the U.S. bishops have shut down Masses, those who do not consider these illegitimate are in fact bound by their decree.
The pope has not ruled unilaterally, that ALL worldwide masses be stopped. Even one of the priests in Italy back in April said that private masses aren't forbidden, only public ones. He told his congregation (wink, wink) what time he was having his private masses.
In many states, such as here in Ohio, the directive is merely that there not be groups of more than 10. So what if the SSPX (and others) assigned 15-minute timeslots for groups of 10 at a time (spread out by at least 6 feet along the Communion rail) to receive Holy Communion. In an 8 hour day, 320 people could receive Holy Communion, and most Traditional chapels don't have anywhere near that many people. Then also make some arrangements for people who wish to go to Confession beforehand. I'm not seeing the SSPX make that extra effort to find creative ways to get the Sacraments to people.
I do know that some sspx chapels are having outdoor confessions, multiple masses, etc. A few weeks ago, when the covid-craziness was higher, they didn't have masses, but still had confessions and adoration, with distancing and scheduling of people at certain times. I don't know if this was at all their chapels, but I've heard similar stories from different states.
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To be fair to the sspx (as much as I criticize them), it takes quite a lot of time, energy and organization to come up with all these new logistics, on the fly, with such an out-of-the-blue situation arises like we're facing. At least from what I'm hearing, some of their priests are making quite a heroic effort. God bless them.
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The novus ordo "bishops", on the other hand, are making no efforts (and the blame should be placed squarely on the bishops). Some of the novus ordo priests are holding drive-up benedictions, with confessions, but I hear no approval or congratulations from the bishops on these efforts. It's all coming from priests.
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Yet, there are still some new-priests that are doing nothing, out of "obedience". One of my relatives emailed their local diocese priest and asked them if they could help organize confessions, or drive-thru benedictions or scheduled adoration. The priest said he had to "obey" the bishop and couldn't do anything. At least he apologized.
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Both of these priests are under the same bishop, so you can see which priests really care about the Faith and which don't.