I also am wondering whether I will ever join a monastery one day. I have applied to some before. Perhaps you should research the Benedictines of Silver City new mexico, or the dominicans associated with the sspx resistance in France. I think they are in Avrille because they are mentioned on this forum every now and then. I am not a person to go to for advice on this matter, and I think it best to get answers from a priest, or number of priests, but if you find out information on a traditional monastery, post your findings here to help me.