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How do you figure it was his decision to "share a tombstone with a woman" when he was already dead and buried for over 2 years when she died and her name was carved on the other side? The engraving was obviously done by two different carvers. The letters and numerals are not the same "font." The words on the right side are misaligned about 1/8" too low. He had a bad eye.
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I heard that while he stayed in a room in the NY home of a couple, he offered daily Mass there, but you're saying he abandoned his vocation. He told me that he asked Paul VI to be excused from his vows of poverty and obedience, but to retain his vow of chastity, and it was granted. Did you know that?
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I guess people need heroes to hang on to.
If you did not find the Angelqueen info persuasive, no point in beating a dead horse.
For me, he was a taxi driver in secular clothes, who left his vocation, and capitalized on a trad market who liked what he had to say.
There wasn't much traditional about him.
For anyone who wants to learn more, here is the link to the Angelqueen Files:
http://angelqueen.org/malachi-martin-files/