A simple answer to all this is that the novus ordo can have a valid consecration, and provide communion/grace for the faithful BUT...it is not a mass.
Because it's not a mass, yet it pretends to be, it is a sacrilege and an awful offense against Almighty God. Ergo, though there could be Eucharistic miracles because Christ is truly present, this does NOT mean God is pleased with the 'service'. Those who realize that the NOM is wrong, IN ANY CAPACITY, should avoid it, no ifs, ands or buts.
We can't offend God because of human respect.