Try, not having a chapel. After driving hours away, they are older, or they are undesirable for spiritual reasons. Those are the 5 women.
You drove for hours away to a strange chapel for the purpose of checking out five women? That sounds like desperation. Neither men nor women like someone who is desperate.
If I drive many hours to a chapel it’s going to be primarily for Mass or another pious activity. A retreat, an ordination, consecration, anniversary, a first Mass, a spiritual conference, a wedding, funeral, baptism, confirmation. If I happen to meet someone there and we find ourselves kindred spirits or, in your case, a possible wife, that’s great. But if you don’t, well, God doesn’t always serve dessert with dinner. But He always provides for you to eat your fill, spiritually speaking.