You don't think it's possible that anyone can be confused by the present Crisis?
Of course. And that lady was obviously confused because she attended a Trad Conference but still wanted to go to the new mass. And +W's job (and any Trad's job) is to UN-CONFUSE those who need help. Our job is to tell those in error to "Stop what you are doing, do this instead and I will help you." You don't let them stay in error.
Let's apply this logic to a simple moral issue.
Example - You find out a relative has an addiction to alcohol and a potential major health issue due to drinking. The relative goes to an AA meeting and asks all those present if he should keep his job at the local pub or find a new one (where he won't be tempted). If the AA leader tells the guy
"Hey, you should keep your job but just start reading articles about the dangers of alcohol abuse. You need to educate yourself before you make any changes. Take your time and make a decision when you're ready." Wouldn't you say this advice is HORRIBLE? Wouldn't you criticize the AA leader for not telling your relative the straight truth? Wouldn't you be angry at the AA leader for not correcting your relative and helping him change NOW?
The correct advice is -
"Hey, i'm sorry you have a health problem and I want to help you. Alcohol is causing your problems and if you don't change, you are going to die. You need to quit your job tomorrow, immediately, to remove yourself from that dangerous temptation. You need to turn to God and pray and He will give you another job and then you might live through this. If you stay in your present situation, you will die soon. Talk to me after the meeting is over and I will help you more."+W should have given similar advice to this lady. Action comes before knowledge. Hearing comes before understanding. Faith comes before Wisdom.
First, one must stop the evil act and the occasion of sin. (Stop going to the new mass)
Second, one must seek truth and do good. (Seek the True Mass)
Third, one learns and becomes. (Eventually, through the True Mass and grace, one becomes a Traditional Catholic).
An alcoholic cannot become sober through willpower, or studying, or reading. He must ACT - shun sin and seek salvation IMMEDIATELY.
A novus ordo catholic cannot become a Trad through conversations or debates or prayer alone. They must ACT FIRST - by shunning the new mass and seeking Tradition IMMEDIATELY and COMPLETELY.
God will not give graces to those that compromise.
You believe that the situation is completely black and white, with nothing in-between, for everyone? Or that all a person needs to do is to hear the truth about the Crisis, and they automatically follow Tradition from the moment they hear the truth, without ever looking back? If you believe these things, then you aren't realistic when it comes to human nature.
This lady knew enough about Tradition and +W to come to a conference. She knew enough to mention a "reverent new mass" (vs an irreverent one). She knew enough to hear the "plain and simple truth" - that is, the new mass is the 'great sacrilege' of our times and it is not catholic and you should not go, ever again, if you want to save your soul.
Meg, you need to read or re-read Fr Wathen's book (The Great Sacrilege). You need to remind yourself how offensive, evil and immoral this fake-rite truly is. You've lost touch with the roots of Traditionalism and how pure, holy and sacred the True Mass is. You need to remind yourself that as God rejected Cain's offering because it was not "his best", so God rejects the new mass because (on it's best day) it is liturgically bland, doctrinally deficient and theologically lukewarm.
On it's worst day, the new mass is an abominable, blasphemous offense against all that is holy and catholic.
Scripture tells us in Apocalypse ch 3...
15I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot. I would thou wert cold or hot. 16But because thou art lukewarm and neither cold nor hot, I will begin to vomit thee out of my mouth. We must reject error totally and completely. We must love truth totally and completely. If we do not, we are lukewarm.
20Behold, I stand at the gate and knock. If any man shall hear my voice and open to me the door, I will come in to him and will sup with him: and he with me. 21To him that shall overcome, I will give to sit with me in my throne: as I also have overcome and am set down with my Father in his throne. 22He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith to the churches.When Christ knocks on the door of our heart, with His Truth, we must open that door at once. If we delay, He may not knock again. When we find the "pearl of great price" we go IMMEDIATELY and sell all that we have, and buy it.
If our neighbor asks for the Truth, we must "let him hear what the Spirit saith". That is, we must preach the PLAIN and WHOLE TRUTH, as it comes from the Holy Ghost. No sugar-coating it, no delays, no compromise.